find themselves otherwise unable to stick to the rules around language, because they feel they absolutely must call users “cis” or “trf”, or call us Nazis.*
ahh.. but Sophocles remember that the moderation rules that demand civil treatment for all still allow us women to voice opinions! So, you are quite correct, the issue is not the moderation rules per say, it is that the discussion is allowed AT ALL.
And to be fair, from seeing OP's one-liner remonstrating posts, that fits their concept of good moderation as well. No discussion threads are allowed because the only evidence that will get posted will be shown to be poorly constructed studies with major credibility issues or opinion pieces that have NO verified evidence at all.
OP posts one of these opinion pieces as evidence of their biased belief and doesn't engage with any of the discrepancies that are posted that discredit it. Must be a day ending in a 'y'.