Pride was a protest.
There have been men in various states of undress there for a long time. Gay men.
It was a protest. it was for adults. There was a risk of violence/ arrest/ outing.
Wearing things that were related to gay male sexuality was a fuck you to a society that was hostile. Where being outed could cost your job, family. Where the police were in hostile mode. Not dancing about in rainbow hats with furries.
Zero problem with that. And it was fairly tame by current standards afaik.
Now though.
In the UK it's got corporate sponsorship. It's not a protest where you might be confronted with a group of violent men/ police.
It's a bring your children.
And the fuck you I am a man who has sex with men and I'm wearing tight trousers and no top and I have my arm around a man with a man dressed similarly.
Has become. Loads of men whatever their sexuality 'celebrating' ... A bizarre range of deeply peculiar (and very very male) kinks. And I'm sure more than a few loving doing it with the corporate support and loads of kids etc all around.
Meanwhile loads of gay men and thinking wtf. We fought against the idea we were child molesters / perves. And now there's these fucking straight men with fetishes fucking that message totally...
Gay male sexuality+ oppression + protest + adults...fine.
A family affair that is glittery fun for all the family having bogstandard men expressing their classically male really odd sexual fetishes... Nope.