Thing is none of it is logical and everyone makes up their own rules as they go along. Contradiction and inconsistency are absolutely fine.
Example.
On a recent thread there was a poster who was discussing a topic and putting the twaw view.
It came to the question about what words are available to describe the female half of the population of the world.
And then I raised something that I find really revealing about the new language.
In news outlets and charities that use things like menstruator on some of their items, things that are not front page.
When it comes to money raising ads or front page news they use women/ girl to mean sex. This is totally inconsistent.
I asked that poster how headlines like
'Uighar women sexually abused in Chinese camps' should be rewritten.
I was told that the headlines were fine because, trying to remember. There was no reason to change it unless a large number of them were trans and something about how you can tell if people are trans by the way they look...???
Which is just totally counter to everything else I've read.
The real reason they don't write headlines like that is because it is crass. And the general public would be baffled and find it offensive.
'Uighar people with vaginas sexually abused' is really obviously dehumanising and grim.
And that's why the new words for women are only used in certain contexts.