Trans people have fought for gay acceptance. We're not going to abandon them now.
And sometimes they didn't, prioritising their own struggles instead. In at least one high profile rights campaign that was to the detriment of gay rights.
Ever heard of ENDA? Legal protections for LGB and T people in the US continue to be woeful. ENDA, the predecessor to the current Equality Act proposal had its best chance of passing in 2007. However, gender identity was added to the bill and thus ENDA failed again. LGB rights advocates begged trans rights campaigners to let them return to having the old ENDA asking only for a law for LGB people and the trans rights campaigners said no, we stand and fall together.
Here is an article from 2007 on the issue:
www.salon.com/2007/10/08/lgbt/
Ever heard of the GRA? Same-sex marriage was prohibited in the UK. The UK's Gender Recognition Act was deliberately written in a way to stop gay and lesbian couples to be able to use it to argue for their right to get married. LGB rights campaigners tried to get the Labour government to allow same-sex marriage, pointing to the GRA proposal specifically designed to allow same-sex marriages for homosexual transsexuals but Labour wasn't having it. Instead they deliberately wrote the law in a way that it could not be used to support the campaign for same-sex marriage for LGB couples.
Did trans rights campaigners hold up their hands and say no, we don't accept that, we stand and fall together?
They did not. They prioritised their own rights. As the LGB should have been allowed to do in 2007 on ENDA. And yet, they had to include the T.
But if it's perfectly legitimate for trans people to prioritise their own rights just why is it wrong for LGB people to prioritise theirs?