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Feminism: Sex and gender discussions

Lesbian Visibility Week

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ASugarr · 01/05/2021 07:39

As Lesbian Visibility Week comes to an end, I want to make a quick reminder that
ALL LESBIANS ARE VALID!

Cisgender and Transgender women can be lesbians. Transgender men who date women don't consider themselves lesbians. All Lesbians deserve visibility!

Additionally, many have stated that they don't wish to date transgender people. That's fine! Just because someone is in the same dating pool doesn't mean you MUST be attracted to them. Plus genital preference is also totally fine! But don't forget, trans women are women so please do not degrade them just because you personally don't wish to date them.

Plus, let's continue to educate one another on the important information. Like preventing STI's as a lesbian, domestic abuse in lesbian relationships and how to deal with that, safe and consentual sex between lesbians. This is what we need to be educating young lesbians and bisexual women on.

Have a fabulous long weekend all 🤍🌈

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Ereshkigalangcleg · 01/05/2021 21:51

My favourite Magdalen video, and right on point here

ArabellaScott · 01/05/2021 21:51

@Erkrie

I'd just laugh. Instead I find these threads very threatening.

I do too. For my young daughter who is a lesbian. It frightens me that there is so much homophobia these days, I thought we had made progress. Instead the clock has wound back to the 80's, but it actually feels worse than that. How do I protect my daughter? How does she protect herself? It feels society has become so unpleasant and dangerous these days.

There are waves of women here and out there who will be there for your daughter and with her. Most people are not homophobic; most people are totally fine with lesbians, gays and bisexual people.

Only some very persistent and vocal people, sadly, are still here trying to dismantle the rights and protections of lesbians. They won't win. I won't let them. Flowers

Letsgetreadytocrumble · 01/05/2021 21:51

That's my favourite Magdalen video too!

'Of course it terrifies you Alex, they chop your cock off'

Grin
littlbrowndog · 01/05/2021 21:52

Magdalen.

What a woman. Someone to admire and look up t

sanluca · 01/05/2021 21:54

Transwoman is the correct noun. Transgender women prefer to be called a transman. And as far as I know transgender man is not allowed here.

littlbrowndog · 01/05/2021 21:54

Feck the toddler can’t sleep so on my tummy

Anyway Magdalen what a great women she was.

The best role model foe all women

ArabellaScott · 01/05/2021 21:54

Sunset, I'd never heard Girls Aloud before, they're pretty good!

SunsetBeetch · 01/05/2021 21:55

[quote Ereshkigalangcleg]Turn it up loud!

m.youtube.com/watch?v=UPIRfivo4lo[/quote]
Tuuuunee!

bitheby · 01/05/2021 21:55

@Erikrie Thanks

I was studying depth psychology before the pandemic in a building that happened to be next door to the Tavistock. One of the guest speakers, an psychologist specialising in adolescence, told us that her lesbian clients were being horrendously bullied at school for being lesbians but being trans was seen as cool. That made up a large proportion of her caseload.

It's horrible but at least awareness of the issues will help you and us to be aware and to protect where we can.

These threads over this week have emboldened me to be openly gender critical on social media. I'm bisexual and yet I've been totally disgusted at the tone being displayed.

SunsetBeetch · 01/05/2021 21:55

@ArabellaScott

Sunset, I'd never heard Girls Aloud before, they're pretty good!
I've always been an indie chick at heart, but they were pop at its finest.
Erikrie · 01/05/2021 21:56

ArabellaScott thanks for the reassurance. It's appreciated ♥️

CorvusPurpureus · 01/05/2021 22:01

[quote Ereshkigalangcleg]Turn it up loud!

m.youtube.com/watch?v=UPIRfivo4lo[/quote]
TUNE! Wine

ArabellaScott · 01/05/2021 22:04

And how have I never heard the Vagina Anthem?! It's fantastic! Thanks, wims. Smile

ArabellaScott · 01/05/2021 22:07

Here's one with a video

Ereshkigalangcleg · 01/05/2021 22:07

Re my Magdalen video response to Riley J Dennis, I confess I posted the wrong one Blush it's still a great watch and I recommend it. This IMO is her magnum opus on the same subject, with plenty of apposite South Park clips!

m.youtube.com/watch?v=F_5FFGrGzJw

ArabellaScott · 01/05/2021 22:08

And while we're on the subject ...

Delphinium20 · 01/05/2021 22:08

I can't help but notice the similarities between eager posters of TWAW and missionary zealots of evangelical Christianity: One must spread the gospel whether the poor uneducated souls want it or not.

Circular arguments and obfuscation (females are trans women, anyone who identifies as a woman is a woman), Uninvited incursions into communities like moving to indigenous villages to convert (lesbian groups must include men and if they don't like it, we must change their minds).

Enlightened missionaries pressuring the already colonized groups to believe the new dogma or risk eternal damnation (TWAW and belong in female spaces or else).

Rewriting the meanings of words:
Meekness=Strength
Submission=Power
Lesbian=man
Penis=vulva

Belief without question.

Unbelievers need saving (educate yourself to keep your Facebook group)

Atheists/Agnostics/skeptics are tools of the devil (feminists are in cahoots with American Republicans).

I do not ascribe to this religion and I don't want to live in a religious state.

Deliriumoftheendless · 01/05/2021 22:08

@ArabellaScott

Sunset, I'd never heard Girls Aloud before, they're pretty good!
There’s been a lot in this thread, but that is the most shocking thing I’ve read so far 😉
NecessaryScene1 · 01/05/2021 22:10

WHAT? THERE WAS A GIRLS ALOUD THREAD AND NOBODY TOLD ME?

Back when the Guardian was good: Girls Aloud – 10 of the best

(Most of the commenters suck though)

Get your

Team Ginge!

Although I guess The Saturdays were all right too: (That was my ringtone for ages)

SunsetBeetch · 01/05/2021 22:11

TEQUILA!

SunsetBeetch · 01/05/2021 22:12

@NecessaryScene1

WHAT? THERE WAS A GIRLS ALOUD THREAD AND NOBODY TOLD ME?

Back when the Guardian was good: Girls Aloud – 10 of the best

(Most of the commenters suck though)

Get your

Team Ginge!

Although I guess The Saturdays were all right too: (That was my ringtone for ages)

Xenomania were SO GOOD.
Ereshkigalangcleg · 01/05/2021 22:15

Girls Aloud were awesome.

ArabellaScott · 01/05/2021 22:15

Delphinium - can I interest you in this religion, instead?

SunsetBeetch · 01/05/2021 22:17

Tico is a very talented little chap.

blackwhiteandstripey · 01/05/2021 22:17

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