That's something to fight for then. Raise awareness etc.
The original refuges were set up by women, because there was no provision. They fund raised etc to do it.
Over the years orgs could bid for govt funding etc and so there is an idea they are provided as a service by councils etc. That's not quite how it works.
Different people have different needs and risks. Those who saw a gap in what had been set up, worked to fund and set up specific services. They too could bid for govt funding etc.
A lot of these places as I understand it are still small things run by people who are often volunteers and they still fund raise.
The argument that if they are well supported by the community they serve they should change their remit and water down their focus is not right imo.
It's also an argument for opening existing shelters up to anyone. This is happening in Brighton etc, the grass roots orgs are being defunded as they don't cater to men. The contracts (money) are going to much larger orgs who often seem to have no experience in the sector.
The whole thing is in trouble.
I do think that specific services are important. A woman who has little grasp of English and is kept very much under control at home, has no idea about what the law is, how to access services etc has very specific needs and a lot of outreach will need to be done.
There is also the point that like it or not, plenty of people are racist. And if you have a service started by, run by, and provided for, people if a certain group who have in the past been overlooked etc. To open it up to all comes with the large risk that the group it was started for will not feel comfortable accessing it.
Grass roots services set up by people who are passionate and have seen an area that is being failed, usually that they are a part of etc, is good.
The root cause is defunding combined with an increase in DV.
Not that minority groups are being given extra stuff. Any stuff they have, has been fought for.
Of course I am sorry about the lack of support. Are you out now? Relationships board has loads of posters who know a lot and will try to help.