But there you go smoked duck with the oppression Olympics/ harm scale/ guessing how you'd feel thing.
Why is ranking these things helpful?
Why is an overt display of misogyny (move this woman we won't sit next to her) which is complied with even though it goes against the actual policy of the airline... And coming from a view of women that they will somehow make the men unclean...
Just hmm well that sounds ok Vs this other thing?
What about the girls and women in my part of London growing up in that very closed community? Are they ok? What if they aren't? How do we know? We don't. Because despite loads of reports about illegal schools etc the govt and LA feel easier to leave well alone.
By saying ok yeah it's not as bad for those men to see women as too... Whatever.. to even sit next to on a plane. And to have their request she moves complied with over and over because... Well they're men. And they're yes of a group that is not considered iffy. And they are religious. And so the woman gets moved even though it's against policy because who says no to men like that?!
Some might see it as minor. But I would encourage looking further than that. What does that massive sense of entitlement and the fact it works say about the lives for the women in their community? Etc etc
None of this is simple. I wish it was.
But in the end women and girls have been oppressed all over the world for as long as we can remember, by men. The laws were follow were written by men for men to protect the things men care about. Property. Women are still seen as property to a greater or lesser extent everywhere. The legacy of being property does not vanish.
Attempts to divide and cause in fighting have gone on forever. And yes they work. With some people, many people. I'm s feminist not of this school or that school. Have been since before I knew the word. I care about all women all over the world. So the different types of shit that all boil down to one thing. Men's desire to exert control over us to ensure who the dad is. And a subtext of seeing us/ treating us as inferior to displace any feelings of guilt.
All of it stems from that. That's the fundamental or the root cause. Another word for root is radical- like radish. Not extremist or something. From the root. And I was also a radical feminist before I knew the term. Because that's how I've seen things since I was really quite young.
The fact that 'radical feminist' now means evil, pretty much. That's interesting, isn't it.
All the women all over the world who see the structure and history as I do. And if you hear what feminists in India, various African countries, various South American countries say. It's that. The root cause.
They're all lumped in with the, essentially, defamation of a branch of feminism with a long history and that is inbuilt into some women, many women, just to see and know.
Marvellous.