She’s (rightly imo) viewed as transphobic because she insinuates that trans people cannot be trusted and are dangerous.
No she doesn't. She says that women need single sex spaces in certain situations, segregated by biological sex. And that she sees problems with 'self-id' where any man can declare himself a woman just on his say so.
She’s likened doctors helping trans kids to grooming
She said that there are issues with using off label unlicensed drugs on children who cannot possibly understand the implications of such use, due to their age and developmental level.
and written a book on the back or her previous warnings where the serial killer dresses as a woman.
As I understand it, the character dresses as a woman in order to gain access to women. This has happened in real life and is not an totally uncommon phenomenon amongst male killers. Of course in a culture of self-id, it would make women even more unsafe, but I don't know if she was deliberately making that point in the book.
and her own story of suffering domestic violence. Not by a trans person, but by a man.
What do you mean by 'trans person' here. What is it exactly that separates a transwoman from a man? At what objective point does a male who identifies as female, come out of the 'high risk' category of male and into the low risk category of female? What are the objective criteria for that move to take place?
But spun so that the lesson is that if trans rights are granted, women will be put at risk.
What rights do you mean here? What rights do I, as a woman, have that trans people do not have? I mean, trans people are currently allowed to legally falsify their birth certificate if they go through due process, I am not allowed to do that? So what rights are we talking about?
However, the simple fact remains: Just as homosexuals decide what’s homophobic, so do trans people decide what’s transphobic.
Yes. And they have decided that biological sex is transphobic, that women having anything for themselves or centering themselves in anything is transphobic, that women being allowed to define themselves is transphobic, that single sex provision is transphobic, that calling someone who has been pregnant and given birth a 'mother' rather than a 'birthing body' is transphobic.
We are well aware that trans people decide what is transphobic.