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Feminism: Sex and gender discussions

My statement in the House of Lords today

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Glinner · 09/03/2021 19:32

(At least I got it on the record. No-one will ever be able to say I didn't try to fight this crap).

My name is Graham Linehan, I am a writer. I’ve written several comedy programmes, the best-known of which is probably ‘Father Ted’ but I’d ask you today to briefly take me seriously because I believe the stakes could not be higher.

Almost four years ago I saw that feminists were being bullied, harassed and silenced for standing up for their rights and their children's rights. I decided to use my platform on Twitter to bring attention to what seemed to be an all-out assault on women, on their words, their dignity and their safety. Also, I saw that vulnerable children were being fast-tracked onto a medical pathway that carried severe long-term implications. My position is very simple. I believe everyone should be allowed to talk about these issues. In fact, I believe it is a moral imperative that we do so.

I am talking about such matters as... the scandals at the Tavistock, the confusing and misleading advice that Stonewall has been providing to institutions all over the UK regarding the nature of the equalities act, the issue of men in women’s sports, in women’s prisons, their rape crisis centres, the destruction of basic safeguarding principles that has led to all this, and the silencing and abuse of feminists, doctors, teachers, academics and writersanyone, in factwho questions the fashionable American orthodoxy of gender identity ideology.

For engaging in this debate, I have been the subject of a series of harassment campaigns, including vexatious legal actions, police visits, magazine articles misrepresenting my positions, threatening letters hand-delivered to my home, my wife’s business address released online...anything and everything has been tried to silence me and prevent people from hearing the reasonable fears many women have about the impact of this ideology on their sex-based rights. I have also lost work. As a result of my sudden financial insecurity, my marriage was placed under such a severe strain that my wife and I finally agreed to separate.

Believe me, I would rather be writing a farce than living through one. But this is a very dangerous farce, one in which children's health and happiness are gambled on an ideology that makes no sense, and yet is zealously and obsessively policed by misogynistic activists on platforms that empower them just as they disempower the women they abuse.

But it’s not just the platforms or their users who are preventing a debate. Around three years ago, I was among the initial signatories of a letter to Stonewall asking them to help lower the toxicity of the conversation around sex and gender and acknowledge the plurality of views on the subject. The letter was composed by Jonny Best, a gay man and longtime LGBT activist, and the majority of these initial signatories were either gay, lesbian or trans.

We wanted to see an end to women receiving death and rape threats for standing up for their sex-based rights. To that end, we asked Stonewall to commit to fostering an atmosphere of respectful debate, rather than demonising as transphobic those who wished to discuss or dissent from Stonewall’s current policies. Stonewall flatly refused this appeal within the day, and continued to dishonestly frame women standing up for their rights as an attack on trans rights. The petition has since been signed by over 11,000 people, many of them gay men and women in despair at what is being done in their name.

JK Rowling is only the latest and most high-profile figure to suffer the consequences of this fundamentalist view of the issue-- the magazine Pink News, which is partly funded by Google, ran 42 stories on her in a single week, that’s six stories a day. But there are thousands more women, who are bullied and slandered and harassed into silence. These women – and they are mostly women – are not famous and so even more vulnerable to the smear campaigns and targeted harassment that JK Rowling and myself have endured.

And to briefly pause here, does anyone present know what JK Rowling said that was transphobic? Can anyone produce any transphobic statements by her? You cannot, because there are none. As a survivor of domestic abuse, she wrote movingly about the importance of single-sex spaces to vulnerable women and children, she complained about the erasure of the word ’woman’ in many areas of civic life, and she pointed out, correctly in my view, that we are living through the misogynistic period we have ever experienced.

In place of evidence of her supposed transphobia, we have hundreds if not thousands of youtube stars, Twitter trolls, mainstream media outletsincluding the BBC spreading a poisonous lie intended to blacken her name and serve as a warning to the women who might otherwise find the courage to echo her concerns.

This silencing of women was the main reason I entered this fight. I knew the subject of gender was fraught but I’m political by nature and I couldn’t remain quiet in the face of such vicious misogyny. I presumed that when others saw what was happening that they too would speak up and we would be able to force the debate our opponents were so desperate to avoid.

I now realise that I was up against a much bigger beast than I thought. These platforms shape the debate and declare you untouchable when you refuse to play by their rules. The upshot is that many people presume that I am a bigot. These people also presume the same of JK Rowling and many other left-leaning, liberal and progressive women.

If you believe that JK Rowling is transphobic, a woman who has devoted her work and much of her fortune to the vulnerable, the bullied, the forgotten and the abused, then you are under a spell. If you believe that men can fairly compete against women in their sportsincluding contact sports then you are under a spell. If you believe that men will not go to the most extreme lengths to gain access to women and children, then you are under a spell. If you believe that children as young as three years old can agree to a procedure that puts them on a medical pathway for life, that arrests their natural puberty, and that has almost no scientific proof as to its efficacy as a treatment for dysphoria, then you are under a spell.

Social media has created a through the looking glass world which is robbing everyone of their ability to think. My final statement on Twitter, the straw that broke the camel’s back, was simply “Men are not women.” A world where statements like “Men are not women” is hate speech is a world on the brink of chaos. Feminists are just the canary in the coalmine in this upside-down world where public discourse depends on the whims of a small group of men in Silicon Valley. Gender identity ideology began in American Universities, is uncritically disseminated by the popular media, but social media companies and their users are the enforcers.

People do not understand the extent to which they have been indoctrinated by this ideology. Women who oppose it are trying desperately to be heard. Helen, who is here with me today is only one example of thousands. I have heard from young lesbians who are frightened that their sexuality will have them labelled transphobic, I have heard from therapists unable to tell distraught children that their favourite author does not want them dead, I’ve heard from detransitioners who tell of young women being groomed by older men in trans youth groups.

The reason you have not heard the things that I have heard is that the discourse is being shaped by trans rights activists. In place of reasoned arguments and democratic discussion, we have mantras like “No debate” and “Transwomen are women”, we have policies passing by stealth, we have bogus statistics about trans murder epidemics and we have the unconscionable weaponising of suicide for political ends.

The discourse is broken. Women’s rights are being stripped away, our children are not safe, and we are not allowed to talk about it.

Once again, thank you for giving us the opportunity to address this today and I would be happy to answer any questions that you have.

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viques · 10/03/2021 19:33

@Xanthangum

Gl*nner is posting his remarks to Parliment and being thanked by these bigots. What if we had equal numbers of women commenting to tell him "You don't speak for me"?

twitter.com/CisWomenAgainst/status/1369684829130874885?s=20

They don't like it up 'em!

Mumsnet is beyond saving

I don’t think I’ve ever been so proud.

This is for everyone Glitterball

Erkrie · 10/03/2021 19:33

The 'you don't speak for me' types will be over to tell us that soon then right. Not content with hassling Glinner on twitter, they want to do it here as well. Prepare for a lot of new members joining. Me thinks these people have too much time on their hands. The job centres that way ➡️

Erkrie · 10/03/2021 19:35

Mumsnet is beyond saving

That's right. The light has been shone on the shadows. We can't unsee it all now. We are. Beyond. Saving. 😁

WhatWouldPhyllisCraneDo · 10/03/2021 19:36

@Xanthangum

Gl*nner is posting his remarks to Parliment and being thanked by these bigots. What if we had equal numbers of women commenting to tell him "You don't speak for me"?

twitter.com/CisWomenAgainst/status/1369684829130874885?s=20

They don't like it up 'em!

I thought anxietysugar concluded from their 'experiment' that we weren't transphobic here. Yet is now claiming they couldn't keep up with the transphobia. Hmm
DialSquare · 10/03/2021 19:38

Even Obi Wan Kenobi can't save us now.

NecessaryScene1 · 10/03/2021 19:39

Mumsnet is beyond saving

Sounds like grumpy Jehovah's Witnesses.

TheChampagneGalop · 10/03/2021 19:39

GlitterballGlitterballGlitterball Grin

TheChampagneGalop · 10/03/2021 19:44

The best part is that the one saying that MN is beyond saving is a 35 yo with a little anime girl avatar.

Alonelonelyloner · 10/03/2021 19:44

Thank you Graham. You speak for me.

I'm grateful every day for the work you do. I feel quite emotional typing that.
Thank you. From me. From my children, who are yet to fully understand the battle we are fighting.

WanderinWomb · 10/03/2021 19:45

You said that earlier...

He doesn't speak for me either, he speaks for himself and this being a feminist board, of course overwhelmingly agree with him.

If you spend your time commenting all over Mumsnet on whether people speak for you or not you'll never get your homework finished.

Impatiens · 10/03/2021 19:47

@TheChampagneGalop

The best part is that the one saying that MN is beyond saving is a 35 yo with a little anime girl avatar.
Save me from that 🤢
WhatWouldPhyllisCraneDo · 10/03/2021 19:47

@WanderinWomb

You said that earlier...

He doesn't speak for me either, he speaks for himself and this being a feminist board, of course overwhelmingly agree with him.

If you spend your time commenting all over Mumsnet on whether people speak for you or not you'll never get your homework finished.

Grin
MarshaBradyo · 10/03/2021 19:48

Mumsnet is beyond saving

How good is that! So pleased. And I love that on threads like this there’s posters that might disagree on other stuff but this does bring us together.

BoeotianNightmare · 10/03/2021 19:52

Thank you Helen and Graham. Marvellous, marvellous people you are Flowers

ValancyRedfern · 10/03/2021 19:54

@WanderinWomb

You said that earlier...

He doesn't speak for me either, he speaks for himself and this being a feminist board, of course overwhelmingly agree with him.

If you spend your time commenting all over Mumsnet on whether people speak for you or not you'll never get your homework finished.

GrinGrinGrin
Sn0tnose · 10/03/2021 19:59

Thank you so much. The price you’ve paid is tremendous, yet you’ve continued to stand up for us. I hope history recognises what you, and the brave people who stand with you, have done for women.

MilesJuppIsMyBitch · 10/03/2021 19:59

Just popped on and realised I'd missed the new thread etiquette so:

You definitely speak for me Glinner

BoeotianNightmare · 10/03/2021 20:00

When I dare to be powerful, to use my strength in the service of my vision, then it becomes less and less important whether I am afraid.
Audre Lorde

Truthlikeness · 10/03/2021 20:01

Thank you, Graham. You say what many of us want to say, but are not yet in a position to be able to. Perhaps one day soon.

ChazsBrilliantAttitude · 10/03/2021 20:15

If I am beyond saving does that make me a fallen woman
(Hopeful emoticon)

Graham you speak for me.

Ereshkigalangcleg · 10/03/2021 20:31

Seeing as it seems we're now doing it twice, you speak for me on this and misogynists on Twitter, or anywhere else, do not.

BrionyAur · 10/03/2021 20:54

Hi Graham. The trans issue wasn't one that I fully understood until a couple of men I know (one quite close to me) came out as 'trans' and then followed a period of 'hang on, wait .....' and complete head fuckery. A friend recommended your youtube videos, saying that they were one of the only things that kept her sane (her son was transitioning). You have really educated me on these issues and also kept me sane. I salute your integrity and your courage. I was moved to tears yesterday to hear of the personal cost to you though. Not much else to say but a huge THANK YOU.

risefromyourgrave · 10/03/2021 21:05

Your fight to speak for me has cost you dearly, so I thank you.

Glinner speaks for me.
(Because I’m a feeble minded natal born woman and can’t do it for myself. (Sarcasm))

TeenyTinyDustinHoffman · 10/03/2021 21:23

@TheChampagneGalop

The best part is that the one saying that MN is beyond saving is a 35 yo with a little anime girl avatar.
Yes. One rather enjoyable part of even the direst Twitter thread is that the righteous cause of transgenderism is mostly headed by anime characters and beards with people attached.
RadandMad · 10/03/2021 22:13

Thank you so much, Graham