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Feminism: Sex and gender discussions

My statement in the House of Lords today

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Glinner · 09/03/2021 19:32

(At least I got it on the record. No-one will ever be able to say I didn't try to fight this crap).

My name is Graham Linehan, I am a writer. I’ve written several comedy programmes, the best-known of which is probably ‘Father Ted’ but I’d ask you today to briefly take me seriously because I believe the stakes could not be higher.

Almost four years ago I saw that feminists were being bullied, harassed and silenced for standing up for their rights and their children's rights. I decided to use my platform on Twitter to bring attention to what seemed to be an all-out assault on women, on their words, their dignity and their safety. Also, I saw that vulnerable children were being fast-tracked onto a medical pathway that carried severe long-term implications. My position is very simple. I believe everyone should be allowed to talk about these issues. In fact, I believe it is a moral imperative that we do so.

I am talking about such matters as... the scandals at the Tavistock, the confusing and misleading advice that Stonewall has been providing to institutions all over the UK regarding the nature of the equalities act, the issue of men in women’s sports, in women’s prisons, their rape crisis centres, the destruction of basic safeguarding principles that has led to all this, and the silencing and abuse of feminists, doctors, teachers, academics and writersanyone, in factwho questions the fashionable American orthodoxy of gender identity ideology.

For engaging in this debate, I have been the subject of a series of harassment campaigns, including vexatious legal actions, police visits, magazine articles misrepresenting my positions, threatening letters hand-delivered to my home, my wife’s business address released online...anything and everything has been tried to silence me and prevent people from hearing the reasonable fears many women have about the impact of this ideology on their sex-based rights. I have also lost work. As a result of my sudden financial insecurity, my marriage was placed under such a severe strain that my wife and I finally agreed to separate.

Believe me, I would rather be writing a farce than living through one. But this is a very dangerous farce, one in which children's health and happiness are gambled on an ideology that makes no sense, and yet is zealously and obsessively policed by misogynistic activists on platforms that empower them just as they disempower the women they abuse.

But it’s not just the platforms or their users who are preventing a debate. Around three years ago, I was among the initial signatories of a letter to Stonewall asking them to help lower the toxicity of the conversation around sex and gender and acknowledge the plurality of views on the subject. The letter was composed by Jonny Best, a gay man and longtime LGBT activist, and the majority of these initial signatories were either gay, lesbian or trans.

We wanted to see an end to women receiving death and rape threats for standing up for their sex-based rights. To that end, we asked Stonewall to commit to fostering an atmosphere of respectful debate, rather than demonising as transphobic those who wished to discuss or dissent from Stonewall’s current policies. Stonewall flatly refused this appeal within the day, and continued to dishonestly frame women standing up for their rights as an attack on trans rights. The petition has since been signed by over 11,000 people, many of them gay men and women in despair at what is being done in their name.

JK Rowling is only the latest and most high-profile figure to suffer the consequences of this fundamentalist view of the issue-- the magazine Pink News, which is partly funded by Google, ran 42 stories on her in a single week, that’s six stories a day. But there are thousands more women, who are bullied and slandered and harassed into silence. These women – and they are mostly women – are not famous and so even more vulnerable to the smear campaigns and targeted harassment that JK Rowling and myself have endured.

And to briefly pause here, does anyone present know what JK Rowling said that was transphobic? Can anyone produce any transphobic statements by her? You cannot, because there are none. As a survivor of domestic abuse, she wrote movingly about the importance of single-sex spaces to vulnerable women and children, she complained about the erasure of the word ’woman’ in many areas of civic life, and she pointed out, correctly in my view, that we are living through the misogynistic period we have ever experienced.

In place of evidence of her supposed transphobia, we have hundreds if not thousands of youtube stars, Twitter trolls, mainstream media outletsincluding the BBC spreading a poisonous lie intended to blacken her name and serve as a warning to the women who might otherwise find the courage to echo her concerns.

This silencing of women was the main reason I entered this fight. I knew the subject of gender was fraught but I’m political by nature and I couldn’t remain quiet in the face of such vicious misogyny. I presumed that when others saw what was happening that they too would speak up and we would be able to force the debate our opponents were so desperate to avoid.

I now realise that I was up against a much bigger beast than I thought. These platforms shape the debate and declare you untouchable when you refuse to play by their rules. The upshot is that many people presume that I am a bigot. These people also presume the same of JK Rowling and many other left-leaning, liberal and progressive women.

If you believe that JK Rowling is transphobic, a woman who has devoted her work and much of her fortune to the vulnerable, the bullied, the forgotten and the abused, then you are under a spell. If you believe that men can fairly compete against women in their sportsincluding contact sports then you are under a spell. If you believe that men will not go to the most extreme lengths to gain access to women and children, then you are under a spell. If you believe that children as young as three years old can agree to a procedure that puts them on a medical pathway for life, that arrests their natural puberty, and that has almost no scientific proof as to its efficacy as a treatment for dysphoria, then you are under a spell.

Social media has created a through the looking glass world which is robbing everyone of their ability to think. My final statement on Twitter, the straw that broke the camel’s back, was simply “Men are not women.” A world where statements like “Men are not women” is hate speech is a world on the brink of chaos. Feminists are just the canary in the coalmine in this upside-down world where public discourse depends on the whims of a small group of men in Silicon Valley. Gender identity ideology began in American Universities, is uncritically disseminated by the popular media, but social media companies and their users are the enforcers.

People do not understand the extent to which they have been indoctrinated by this ideology. Women who oppose it are trying desperately to be heard. Helen, who is here with me today is only one example of thousands. I have heard from young lesbians who are frightened that their sexuality will have them labelled transphobic, I have heard from therapists unable to tell distraught children that their favourite author does not want them dead, I’ve heard from detransitioners who tell of young women being groomed by older men in trans youth groups.

The reason you have not heard the things that I have heard is that the discourse is being shaped by trans rights activists. In place of reasoned arguments and democratic discussion, we have mantras like “No debate” and “Transwomen are women”, we have policies passing by stealth, we have bogus statistics about trans murder epidemics and we have the unconscionable weaponising of suicide for political ends.

The discourse is broken. Women’s rights are being stripped away, our children are not safe, and we are not allowed to talk about it.

Once again, thank you for giving us the opportunity to address this today and I would be happy to answer any questions that you have.

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Vebrithien · 10/03/2021 08:06

"There will be a time when we must choose between what is easy and what is right".

Thank you for choosing what is right.

Thank you so much.

Turquoise11 · 10/03/2021 08:16

Thank you Glinner for being so courageous and sticking with what is right and true. History will judge.

TooYoungToNotice · 10/03/2021 08:18

Thank you for all you've done. The personal cost to you has obviously been tremendously high. There are very few high profile people with such integrity these days. The totalitarian nature of cancel culture weighs heavy on our society.

Thank you for speaking up for those without a voice and standing alongside the many people who see this misogyny for exactly what it is.

teawamutu · 10/03/2021 08:20

@AsbestosWitch

Dorian Lynskey has posted the most disingenuous twitter thread I've ever seen, all wide-eyed confusion and sorrow at Glinner's 'radicalisation'.

For a self-proclaimed expert in Orwell, he doesn't really seem to understand much about Orwell.

So sorry you're having to deal with all this shit, Graham.

I know, patronising complacent knob-end.

I've unfollowed him.

Laeta · 10/03/2021 08:41

Thank you

TheElementsSong · 10/03/2021 08:45

Thank you @Glinner Flowers

MeltsAway · 10/03/2021 08:48

Graham @glinner thank you!

I'm so sorry to hear about the personal cost.

I know a fraction of the stress & strain you must be feeling, as I had to deal with an accusation of 'transphobia' about 4 years ago (quite early in this recent attack on women & a sign of things to come). It was a spurious accusation & set up by TRAs, as the complaint was made by a person I had never met, never spoken to, never had any dealings with. I faced having a disciplinary enquiry at my place of work, as the complainant wanted me sacked "if I didn't change my views."

My views were that biology is not bigotry, and that women are women, and entitled to single-sex spaces. And that we need debate, not #nodebate. Fairly standard middle-of-the-road views which most people in this country hold.

But my whole livelihood and reputation was threatened.

So you & Helen are a whole next level of courage.

Glinner · 10/03/2021 08:53

Oh, hey, thanks so much for the supportive messages! For anyone asking how they can help, I guess the best thing for me is if people push back against pieces or people misrepresenting me or my positions. In the short term, money is tight (but there's some promising stuff on the horizon) so if people want to buy me a coffee that's great, but I'm proudest of the journalism on the Substack, which is more or less my full-time job now, so if you're in a position to take out a paid subscription, that's great too.

There's also the War On Women newsletter, which at the moment is free and run by my friend Hannah. This is a daily update that balances out the bad news with actions you can take to fight back. I'm hoping it's ok to post the link here waronwomen.substack.com/

Again, can't thank you all enough for the kind words. I've been waiting so long for an opportunity like yesterday and it looks like it went the way I hoped it would. You're all brilliant and inspiring and there's no way we won't win this. Onwards!

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RoyalCorgi · 10/03/2021 08:56

For a self-proclaimed expert in Orwell, he doesn't really seem to understand much about Orwell.

Exactly. Gobsmacking, isn't it? Imagine what Orwell would have made of the relentless censorship and witch-hunting from TRAs. He must be spinning in his grave.

Glad to hear it went well yesterday, glinner.

JustAnotherBrick · 10/03/2021 09:20

Thank, you for doing this at huge personal cost to yourself. Have bought you a coffee but will also look at the substack. It’s so important to shine a light on this and people are scared. It’s hard for women to speak up because they are afraid of being targeted themselves. Just appalling that we’ve come to this.
Once again, thank you for everything you are doing.

GiveMeCoffeeandTV · 10/03/2021 09:22

Thank you so much. Your courage and support for women and girls are inspiring. I’m starting to have hope that better times are coming. Sorry to hear about the toll this stand is taking on your life.
I’ll look at the substack subscription today.
With thanks and very best wishes.

lifeturnsonadime · 10/03/2021 09:50

Thank you so much Graham, we need more people to be like you and to stand up for what they believe in.

I am sorry you have had to pay such a high price.

langclegflavoredbananamush · 10/03/2021 09:51

Thank you! I can't remember where I saw this from you, (twitter probably) a couple/few years ago, you were asked why, out of all the issues facing society (war, corruption, damage to the environment, etc.) you chose this issue to focus on. You answered that you felt that this was an issue where you could make a difference. That really impressed me, and impresses me now to see how you are sticking with it (us) through thick and thin. Onwards, indeed!

PaleBlueMoonlight · 10/03/2021 09:55

I have subscribed the substack. Your work is really useful in pulling together all the various strands of campaigning and exposing the depths of institutional capture. It complements the wonderful campaigning work being done by the increasing number of groups who are tackling different aspects of the problems faced and using different strategies to do so.

AsMuchUseAsAMarzipanDildo · 10/03/2021 10:08

Thank you. FWIW I think the tide is slowly changing. It’s just so hard to get the message out there when it starts with the “kindnesses” of pronouns on emails; all while any questions about where this might lead or why language matters are deleted for being “transphobic”. That is why we need to keep raising our voices, whenever and wherever we can. A lot of people genuinely don’t know about men in women’s sport, prisons, shortlists etc.

I’m so sorry it’s come at such a high personal cost to you. I will keep defending you.... although given that I was recently blocked and blacklisted as a T**F for suggesting to a fellow lactation consultant that the difference between “chest pain” and “breast pain” might be quite important, it may take some time Hmm

andyoldlabour · 10/03/2021 10:19

Hats off to you Graham, extremely well done.

Ereshkigalangcleg · 10/03/2021 10:21

Can Dorian Lynsey really not see any parallels? Or does he think we have always been at war with EastAsia where males are women?

tiktok · 10/03/2021 10:28

I’m really pleased Glinner is persuing all this, and at great personal cost, too, which is awful....I subscribe to the newsletter and updates and I read ‘em all. They’re galvanising - and often funny so well worth the sub 😀. Thank you, Graham.

I’m so glad Helen is active, too. Again, the shit she has put up with is unpleasant and relentless. The ‘Staniland question’ is alive and well, despite the ridiculous Twitter ban. 💪👍

DickKerrLadies · 10/03/2021 10:33

@Ereshkigalangcleg

Can Dorian Lynsey really not see any parallels? Or does he think we have always been at war with EastAsia where males are women?
"I tell you, Winston, that reality is not external. Reality exists in the human mind, and nowhere else. Not in the individual mind, which can make mistakes, and in any case soon perishes: only in the mind of the Party, which is collective and immortal. Whatever the Party holds to be the truth, is truth. It is impossible to see reality except by looking through the eyes of the Party."

I feel I need to clarify that that's a quote from 1984, because when I read that quote it doesn't really feel like a work of fiction.

UtopiaPlanitia · 10/03/2021 10:42

GRMA from Ireland, Graham! Bought a few wee coffees; I feel glad to help you, even in a small way. Thanks for sticking with us in our fight - you are very much appreciated for all that you do to protect women’s rights.

ChattyLion · 10/03/2021 10:46

Posting here because I hope you’ll see this Glinner and I don’t know how to contact Helen Staniland.
I think it could be relevant to your evidence session yesterday. The UK government are advertising their first ever showcase event about ‘using tech to keep online communities safer’ coming up on 24 March.

cogx.live/events/safety-tech-2021/

www.gov.uk/government/news/world-first-safety-tech-expo-to-feature-speakers-from-lego-youtube-riot-ea-and-more

Firstly there is no women’s experience speaker I can spot so that is a massive gap in identifying what the problem looks like.
Secondly solutions shouldn’t be about shutting down speech further, but about having very clear lines about what is legally acceptable speech and what is acceptable on each platform without creating an equalities problem around unequal freedom of expression between men and women on each particular platform.

It can’t be fair that companies’ own policies = women will be banned because they post about women’s rights.

The state needs to legally regulate so that companies have clear lines about mass reporting, and provide transparency about who makes the decisions to sanction or ban posters as Helen and you said in your evidence to the committee yesterday. There’s other issues too- What can women do right now about being sent sexually graphic and violent images, threats, doxxing etc etc when the platforms themselves don’t do anything about them. Will these new tech solutions change anything around that? And so on.

Could you contact the organisers and offer to send a speaker? Reading between the lines this looks like the government supporting tech solutions to online harassment but without first having had the principled discussion with users about what the new tech will actually be used for or what acceptable disagreement online looks like. We have to get a consensus on that otherwise surely there’ll just be even more silencing of women and an even greater lack of transparency about how it’s being done systematically because it will be instantaneous and automated.

They say: ‘The Expo will set out a compelling vision for how technology can be used in a positive way to create value for brands and safer online experiences for users, by helping companies detect and address potentially harmful content or behaviour.’

Also ‘Safety Tech 2021 will reveal how technology can be used to help companies tackle the growing levels of toxicity that see one in five people abandon online games and social platforms. This can include hate speech, disinformation, grooming, harassment and advocacy of suicide or self-harm. It includes sessions aimed at CEOs, technologists, designers, marketing leads and regulatory compliance leads.

Sponsored by the UK Department for Digital, Culture, Media and Sport (DCMS) and Department for International Trade (DIT), the event adds further momentum to the growing global cross-sector movement for online safety.

Tickets for this free event, which takes place on Wednesday 24 March at 15:30 - 18:00 GMT can be found on the CogX website.’

hoodathunkit · 10/03/2021 10:47

Flowers Flowers

Graham, thank you for all you have done

I am so sorry that the cost to you and to your wife has been so high

No good deed goes unpunished, as the saying goes

I hope you can write some searing satire to make lemonade from the lemons life has dealt you over your principled stance on this issue

Thanks again

ExponentiallyDepleted · 10/03/2021 10:50

@Sophoclesthefox

Am really loving that there are dozens of usernames here that I don’t recognise as being regulars on feminism chat Grin welcome, welcome, pull up a chair and have a bit of cake Cake

That was a powerful speech, thank you.

I don't post often but I read lots and have been doing for years Flowers
Abhannmor · 10/03/2021 11:26

That was very moving and inspiring. Thank you so much. Go néirí an t-ádh leat Graham.

Perpetualnamechanger · 10/03/2021 11:26

Thank you for all that you have done and continue to do for women's rights.

I watched yesterday and your statement could not have been more accurate in every way. I was heartbroken learn how badly this has affected your personal life.

To all those out there putting themselves at great risk by stating the truth and defending women and children, I just want to say a huge thank you!

Your emails make my day, you are a true hero.