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Feminism: Sex and gender discussions

My statement in the House of Lords today

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Glinner · 09/03/2021 19:32

(At least I got it on the record. No-one will ever be able to say I didn't try to fight this crap).

My name is Graham Linehan, I am a writer. I’ve written several comedy programmes, the best-known of which is probably ‘Father Ted’ but I’d ask you today to briefly take me seriously because I believe the stakes could not be higher.

Almost four years ago I saw that feminists were being bullied, harassed and silenced for standing up for their rights and their children's rights. I decided to use my platform on Twitter to bring attention to what seemed to be an all-out assault on women, on their words, their dignity and their safety. Also, I saw that vulnerable children were being fast-tracked onto a medical pathway that carried severe long-term implications. My position is very simple. I believe everyone should be allowed to talk about these issues. In fact, I believe it is a moral imperative that we do so.

I am talking about such matters as... the scandals at the Tavistock, the confusing and misleading advice that Stonewall has been providing to institutions all over the UK regarding the nature of the equalities act, the issue of men in women’s sports, in women’s prisons, their rape crisis centres, the destruction of basic safeguarding principles that has led to all this, and the silencing and abuse of feminists, doctors, teachers, academics and writersanyone, in factwho questions the fashionable American orthodoxy of gender identity ideology.

For engaging in this debate, I have been the subject of a series of harassment campaigns, including vexatious legal actions, police visits, magazine articles misrepresenting my positions, threatening letters hand-delivered to my home, my wife’s business address released online...anything and everything has been tried to silence me and prevent people from hearing the reasonable fears many women have about the impact of this ideology on their sex-based rights. I have also lost work. As a result of my sudden financial insecurity, my marriage was placed under such a severe strain that my wife and I finally agreed to separate.

Believe me, I would rather be writing a farce than living through one. But this is a very dangerous farce, one in which children's health and happiness are gambled on an ideology that makes no sense, and yet is zealously and obsessively policed by misogynistic activists on platforms that empower them just as they disempower the women they abuse.

But it’s not just the platforms or their users who are preventing a debate. Around three years ago, I was among the initial signatories of a letter to Stonewall asking them to help lower the toxicity of the conversation around sex and gender and acknowledge the plurality of views on the subject. The letter was composed by Jonny Best, a gay man and longtime LGBT activist, and the majority of these initial signatories were either gay, lesbian or trans.

We wanted to see an end to women receiving death and rape threats for standing up for their sex-based rights. To that end, we asked Stonewall to commit to fostering an atmosphere of respectful debate, rather than demonising as transphobic those who wished to discuss or dissent from Stonewall’s current policies. Stonewall flatly refused this appeal within the day, and continued to dishonestly frame women standing up for their rights as an attack on trans rights. The petition has since been signed by over 11,000 people, many of them gay men and women in despair at what is being done in their name.

JK Rowling is only the latest and most high-profile figure to suffer the consequences of this fundamentalist view of the issue-- the magazine Pink News, which is partly funded by Google, ran 42 stories on her in a single week, that’s six stories a day. But there are thousands more women, who are bullied and slandered and harassed into silence. These women – and they are mostly women – are not famous and so even more vulnerable to the smear campaigns and targeted harassment that JK Rowling and myself have endured.

And to briefly pause here, does anyone present know what JK Rowling said that was transphobic? Can anyone produce any transphobic statements by her? You cannot, because there are none. As a survivor of domestic abuse, she wrote movingly about the importance of single-sex spaces to vulnerable women and children, she complained about the erasure of the word ’woman’ in many areas of civic life, and she pointed out, correctly in my view, that we are living through the misogynistic period we have ever experienced.

In place of evidence of her supposed transphobia, we have hundreds if not thousands of youtube stars, Twitter trolls, mainstream media outletsincluding the BBC spreading a poisonous lie intended to blacken her name and serve as a warning to the women who might otherwise find the courage to echo her concerns.

This silencing of women was the main reason I entered this fight. I knew the subject of gender was fraught but I’m political by nature and I couldn’t remain quiet in the face of such vicious misogyny. I presumed that when others saw what was happening that they too would speak up and we would be able to force the debate our opponents were so desperate to avoid.

I now realise that I was up against a much bigger beast than I thought. These platforms shape the debate and declare you untouchable when you refuse to play by their rules. The upshot is that many people presume that I am a bigot. These people also presume the same of JK Rowling and many other left-leaning, liberal and progressive women.

If you believe that JK Rowling is transphobic, a woman who has devoted her work and much of her fortune to the vulnerable, the bullied, the forgotten and the abused, then you are under a spell. If you believe that men can fairly compete against women in their sportsincluding contact sports then you are under a spell. If you believe that men will not go to the most extreme lengths to gain access to women and children, then you are under a spell. If you believe that children as young as three years old can agree to a procedure that puts them on a medical pathway for life, that arrests their natural puberty, and that has almost no scientific proof as to its efficacy as a treatment for dysphoria, then you are under a spell.

Social media has created a through the looking glass world which is robbing everyone of their ability to think. My final statement on Twitter, the straw that broke the camel’s back, was simply “Men are not women.” A world where statements like “Men are not women” is hate speech is a world on the brink of chaos. Feminists are just the canary in the coalmine in this upside-down world where public discourse depends on the whims of a small group of men in Silicon Valley. Gender identity ideology began in American Universities, is uncritically disseminated by the popular media, but social media companies and their users are the enforcers.

People do not understand the extent to which they have been indoctrinated by this ideology. Women who oppose it are trying desperately to be heard. Helen, who is here with me today is only one example of thousands. I have heard from young lesbians who are frightened that their sexuality will have them labelled transphobic, I have heard from therapists unable to tell distraught children that their favourite author does not want them dead, I’ve heard from detransitioners who tell of young women being groomed by older men in trans youth groups.

The reason you have not heard the things that I have heard is that the discourse is being shaped by trans rights activists. In place of reasoned arguments and democratic discussion, we have mantras like “No debate” and “Transwomen are women”, we have policies passing by stealth, we have bogus statistics about trans murder epidemics and we have the unconscionable weaponising of suicide for political ends.

The discourse is broken. Women’s rights are being stripped away, our children are not safe, and we are not allowed to talk about it.

Once again, thank you for giving us the opportunity to address this today and I would be happy to answer any questions that you have.

OP posts:
Jobsharenightmare · 16/04/2021 08:38

We have to hold hope that this situation is changeable for the good of all the women you bravely spoke up for Graham. Thank you.

R0wantrees · 16/04/2021 08:51

As the logo at the top left of every page makes clear, Mumsnet is a site "by parents for parents."
Its curious that some folk who demand so called gender neutral descriptions of sex specific words eg woman, man then deny the meaning of inclusive terms such as parent.

WarOnWomen · 16/04/2021 09:04

And moving on back to @Glinner ...

Thank you. I read all your and your guest writers' articles. I find them informative and, sometimes, a little harrowing and disturbing. However, it's great that you are getting it all out there.

BadGherkin · 16/04/2021 09:05

@ASugarr - who is “we” exactly? Who is keeping tabs on where people post?

Terranean · 16/04/2021 09:11

Thanks @Glinner for a great and condensed speech. I for one, I’m very glad you posted it here. And judging from all the Flowers and thanks I’m not alone.

Shame others are cowarded by the bullies. I’m sorry it has come at such a personal cost to you. Thanks again Flowers

R0wantrees · 16/04/2021 09:18

People do not understand the extent to which they have been indoctrinated by this ideology. Women who oppose it are trying desperately to be heard. Helen, who is here with me today is only one example of thousands. I have heard from young lesbians who are frightened that their sexuality will have them labelled transphobic, I have heard from therapists unable to tell distraught children that their favourite author does not want them dead, I’ve heard from detransitioners who tell of young women being groomed by older men in trans youth groups.

The reason you have not heard the things that I have heard is that the discourse is being shaped by trans rights activists. In place of reasoned arguments and democratic discussion, we have mantras like “No debate” and “Transwomen are women”, we have policies passing by stealth, we have bogus statistics about trans murder epidemics and we have the unconscionable weaponising of suicide for political ends.

Relevant thread, OP Help a brother out Glinner wrote (26-Feb-19 ) :

"Hello, you coven of squints far right Nazi witches!

I'd like to collect some anecdotes about when and why you first became involved in the debate about gender ideology and activism. I've also asked on Twitter but thought this might be good for longer answers.

Please tell me your stories!"

www.mumsnet.com/Talk/womens_rights/3518546-help-a-brother-out

C152 · 16/04/2021 09:26

What an amazing statement. Thank you for standing up for me an so many others.

IsAnybodyListening · 16/04/2021 09:46

Thankyou Graham. I spoke out once, tried to engage in an open conversation with a then friend, who came out as Trans. I have mentioned this on the feminist boards before-Long story short, the unjustified abuse I received from social media. Men telling me I needed a good smack etc.....My heinous crime being I inadvertently used a pro noun I apparently shouldn't have used.

In the end, I had roughly 8 men I had never met who tried to tear me apart with words. It was also the first time I was called a CIS Bitch.

I couldn't even report it, because who would take the side of me, a woman, against a bunch of men claiming to be trans women? THEY take priority in the eyes of the world. I don't. THEIR feeling matter. Mine don't.

BuffyTheSlavishIdeologySlayer · 16/04/2021 10:02

Why is sugar on this platform at all then? You have admitted to not having children, so surely by your own logic a parenting website is not for you.
Thanks @Glinner for the protection of women and our children.

Ereshkigalangcleg · 16/04/2021 10:21

We know you enjoy using women's platforms but why here?

Mumsnet is a "women's platform"? Not very inclusive language, according to your own views, is it?

Erkrie · 16/04/2021 10:46

Why are you on MumsNet talking about this? We know you enjoy using women's platforms but why here

Women's platforms? Are you gatekeeping womens platforms?

Do you also think women need to be a mum to post here?

334bu · 16/04/2021 10:47

Thank you Graham . You have always been brave and ready to take on the establishment to protect women and children. Flowers
Ps I feel very strongly that everyone should have the right to post their views here. If their opinions have merits great and still great if they are a load of nonsense. We can all tell the difference.

yourhairiswinterfire · 16/04/2021 10:54

Adding my thanks too. Always appreciate the people who don't need to speak up, but do so anyway. It would be a hell of a lot easier to stay quiet, so it means a lot that you don't. Flowers

yourhairiswinterfire · 16/04/2021 10:57

Mumsnet is a "women's platform"? Not very inclusive language

Have to agree. The majority of posters are likely female, but calling it a 'women's platform' excludes single dads and dads in same-sex relationships, who have always been welcomed, because this is the biggest parenting site, by parents for parents.

There are plenty of women here too who aren't parents, because the forum is huge, so there are plenty of topics where parental status is irrelevant. This board, AIBU, Relationships, Style and Beauty, Telly Addicts, Chat, etc.

YetAnotherSpartacus · 16/04/2021 12:18

Great stuff Glinner!

3beesinmybonnet · 16/04/2021 13:07

Thank you so much for standing up for women, and I am so sorry to learn at what cost to you.

stumbledin · 16/04/2021 14:49

ASugarr

There have been male persons commenting on mumsnet for years surely. There is a man who regularly posts notices about history events he organises that centre on women. Do you question him?

And surely anyone who is so publicly fighting for women's sex based rights is welcome to let us know about recent developments, or how putting your head above the parapet makes you the target for abuse and worse.

And withouth saying mumsnet is the central core of the fight for women's sex based rights it is (as said above) one of the few places where news and information can be shared without being censored.

It is vital that the issue is not seen as a sideline of a few "out of date" older feminists.

Knoxinbox · 16/04/2021 15:47

It is vital that the issue is not seen as a sideline of a few "out of date" older feminists.

I’m in my 30s, does that count as young enough?? Grin

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