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Feminism: Sex and gender discussions

Keir Starmer on Sophy Ridge

279 replies

EdgeOfACoin · 21/02/2021 09:10

On just now.

Asked about trans rights. Said that they didn't go far enough and the current process to transition is demeaning.

Criticised both sides (ie TRAs and feminists) for 'tearing lumps' out of each other.

Expressed sympathy for women who were victims of domestic violence but refused to say whether refuges should be single-sex or not (fence-sitting).

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peak2021 · 21/02/2021 11:02

The non-leader of the non-opposition. You can agree that the current process is not good and needs reform without it being an open door to any man to 'identify as a woman' and go into places that are and should remain safe spaces for women. His answer to the refuges question is awful.

Thank you Sophy Ridge for asking the question, as the tame BBC interviewers probably would not do so.

Justhadathought · 21/02/2021 11:04

What exactly does the phrase ‘tearing lumps out of each other’ actually mean? I’ve never heard it before. Is it an English expression ? Or regional

It is a bit of a mixed metaphor ( tearing strips out of......).

It his way of trying to suggest neutrality, and that both sides are as bad as each other. He does not want to alienate any potential voters. that is his only concern.

Justhadathought · 21/02/2021 11:05

Wow, OK... I keep thinking that Starmer is just biding his time and that as the next election draws closer he will come out for women and girls, but I am really starting to doubt that now

That really isn't going to happen.

TheCatThatGotTheCream · 21/02/2021 11:06

Keir Starmer is weak and spineless. He doesn't want to take a side for fear of being held accountable to something.

HPFA · 21/02/2021 11:10

@EdgeOfACoin

We should be working to push him to go as far as he reasonably can

What does this mean, though? If there are enough compromises we should be happy? Which areas should we compromise on?

Sorry if I've misunderstood, I'm just trying to work out what this means in practice.

Personally I think we need to keep pushing the lines on sport, prisons and domestic violence shelters. I suspect that's the compromise Keir is looking at.

Once at work I overheard two women discussing trans rights - not political activists, both middle aged, the sort of women you might hope would be "on our side".

And the message that they'd picked up about us was that we were trying to kick harmless old transwomen out of toilets because we're "mean". They hadn't picked up the messages about sports or prisons or anything else. Just toilets. And it really woke me up to how we're not operating to our strengths politically.

If we really wanted to help our cause we'd be out there now tweeting about how great it was to hear Keir "standing up for victims of domestic violence". Show him that taking a line more favourable to our side has a political reward. Because seriously any Labour adviser reading this thread would be saying to Keir now "Don't bother to offer this lot anything Keir. They'll never be happy."

It's not that I "like" this. I'd much prefer to have a Leader who was totally on our side. But it's not going to happen in current politics.

DdraigGoch · 21/02/2021 11:13

but refused to say whether refuges should be single-sex or not (fence-sitting).
Is there an issue on Earth that he wouldn't sit on the fence for?

yourhairiswinterfire · 21/02/2021 11:17

@merrymouse

What is he on about 'trans rights not going far enough' anyway?

Yes -as a lawyer he should be able to explain what this means. Which bit of the current law does he want to change?

Self ID, isn't it?

I'm sure he said the exact same thing, they ''don't go far enough'', just after self ID was scrapped. IIRC, he also said the ''baddies on both sides'' (paraphrasing) thing too. He's sticking to a predictable script.

Have fun losing more and more thoroughly pissed off women Kier!

RaidersoftheLostAardvark · 21/02/2021 11:18

Oh dear. Looks like I'm voting Tory now! Do Labour want to stay in opposition? Maybe he's hoping enough high court cases come along that establish women's rights fully in law, so it becomes a non-issue. The Scottish Hate Crimes bill is already a s-show.

Sofasouffle · 21/02/2021 11:19

He did start to answer the first question by saying that trans people are the most abused and oppressed in society

Oh FFS, there aren't any transpeople in the society most of us live in. None! I don't know why their rights gets such prominence. They - wherever they are - can have the same human rights as any of us.

Impatiens · 21/02/2021 11:22

I keep thinking that Starmer is just biding his time and that as the next election draws closer he will come out for women and girls, but I am really starting to doubt that now

That's what I was hoping (and arguing) a year ago but I've given up now. Every time he's had the opportunity to do that he doesn't take it and eventually I had to accept it was because he just doesn't really care. He's not alone in that of course - Lisa Nandy, Angela Rayner and even Jess Phillips have been prepared to sell women out and humiliate themselves over this. It's so sad and shocking to me.

He's gambling that new young voters will get on board as they did with Corbyn - he doesn't seem to have seen the massive flaw that all those new members ultimately didn't add up to winning an election. At the next election, if Starmer is still in place, the media will destroy him over this and he'll deserve it.

WhereYouLeftIt · 21/02/2021 11:23

@StillAWoman2

What exactly does the phrase ‘tearing lumps out of each other’ actually mean? I’ve never heard it before. Is it an English expression ? Or regional?
Might be a Scottish expression, I've heard it since childhood.

The image in my head when I hear it is of a vicious dogfight, two snarling biting dogs sinking their teeth into each other, but so evenly matched that neither can win. Both will emerge injured and weaker from the fight.

There's a nuance that the fight is pointless, benefitting no-one; and a slight exasperation towards the participants for wasting their energies.

Justhadathought · 21/02/2021 11:24

Everyone has equal civil rights already including those identifying as trans.

What is being sought is ideological in origin, and on top of that seeks to actively privilege some 'protected groups' over others ( namely women & girls).

HPFA · 21/02/2021 11:24

People thinking the Tories will be any better on the issue are deceiving themselves. Who tried to bring in self-ID in the first place? And who is it who are trying to bring it in now under the guise of a Committee?

I guess under the Tories we won't have to worry about who gets into Domestic Violence shelters because they'll continue to be defunded out of existence just like in the last ten years.

merrymouse · 21/02/2021 11:28

@Sofasouffle

He did start to answer the first question by saying that trans people are the most abused and oppressed in society

Oh FFS, there aren't any transpeople in the society most of us live in. None! I don't know why their rights gets such prominence. They - wherever they are - can have the same human rights as any of us.

Actually if you take Stonewall definitions at face value most people are trans.
WhereYouLeftIt · 21/02/2021 11:33

"He's gambling that new young voters will get on board as they did with Corbyn - he doesn't seem to have seen the massive flaw that all those new members ultimately didn't add up to winning an election. At the next election, if Starmer is still in place, the media will destroy him over this and he'll deserve it."

Exactly this. The membership numbers are meaningless if they don't translate into election wins. He's chasing the wrong metric.

A moderately competent Opposition should be running rings around our current Cabinet; it's an open goal FFS. That they are not, preferring to waste their energies on infighting and dogma. They'll lose the next election too, and wither away as the Liberals did and they will have no-one to blame but themselves Sad Angry (not that they will).

Violetparis · 21/02/2021 11:34

I don't understand why people think it's just the hard left in Labour pushing that TWAW it's people like Lisa Nandy, Angela Rayner, Jess Philips etc.

Eyesofdisarray · 21/02/2021 11:38

Why is it so difficult to acknowledge that women are and always have been more oppressed? Waiting for someone to tell me what rights trans people don't have? Oh yeah women's Sad
Labour are done and Keir needs to check his arse for splinters

Thelnebriati · 21/02/2021 11:45

He just admitted by omission that children affected by domestic violence are invisible to lawmakers. If you can't see them, you can't help them.

Moonstone1234 · 21/02/2021 11:45

Tories will win the next election and the one after. Starmer if he is still on board will be seen as a fence sitting twit.

Boris won the election last time with a clear mandate, get Brexit done, he smashed through a wall with a digger. Cannot imagine Brown or even Maggie doing anything like that but Boris got away with it.

Corbyn was a disaster. Jonathan Ashworth the Shadow Health Secretary was right when it was leaked just before the polls saying Corbyn was not selling it and that they would lose. I cannot believe those within Labour didn’t know this before then.

So why continue - I was listening until I turned off to Ash Sarkar spouting such utter nonsense. I could then see why Labour are losing again and again.

Blair and Campbell would never have put up with such rubbish and in return one three elections.

I am not sure though that attacking the current gov now would do any good. We are doing a brilliant job on the vaccine rollout. If an election was called tomorrow I think Boris and co would win again.

Come on Labour - get a grip. You need to move to the centre ground.

HopeClearwater · 21/02/2021 11:50

@MoltenLasagne thanks for sharing that clip. Fascinating looking at Osborne - and especially Ed Balls - listening to it. They know he’s right.

Moonstone1234 · 21/02/2021 11:51

Violet - I agree. This agenda is rife. So carry on Labour - lose again.

I would like all women to be safe. But as someone said previously, I don’t know any trans people. My DS knows one he thinks. You ask the average working class Northern voter and they probably won’t care, what they will care about are regenerating industries helping get their kids a trade or career and to stop the obsession with London lead woke agendas.

Tistheseason17 · 21/02/2021 11:52

Is there a lot of evidence of trans women seeking refuge at women's DV hostels and then committing DV against the women there?

I'd like to understand the issue.

StillAWoman2 · 21/02/2021 11:53

WhereYouLeftIt thank-you!

There’s a nuance that the fight is pointless, benefitting no one; and a slight exasperation towards the participants for wasting their energies

If this is what Starmer meant by this phrase (& it would be in keeping with his stance so far) that is massively patronising and ignorant. Does he categorise any other human rights dispute like this? Or is it just women he doesn’t take seriously?

Moonstone1234 · 21/02/2021 11:54

That clip was the highlight of the GE night. That and the fact the Momentum leader just sat there. For them it’s not about winning an election, it’s about protesting to make themselves feel better. The fact they might be middle class, live in London, send kids to private schools is irrelevant.

Right on with their woke agenda,

merrymouse · 21/02/2021 11:59

So why continue - I was listening until I turned off to Ash Sarkar spouting such utter nonsense. I could then see why Labour are losing again and again.

I don’t think the problem is Ash Sarkar - Jeremy Corbyn was an MP throughout the Blair years without threatening Tony Blair too much. The Conservatives have their own dodgy MPs and affiliates.

The problem is Starmer’s inability to get to grips with a problem that should be simple. All he has to do is accept the existence of conflict of rights and give his MPs clear support when they defend sex based rights.