Nahhh hun - I've been using bathrooms for 3 decades just fine. trans people have been using them too. I go into a cubicle, do my business and leave.
The misogyny I experienced is from Men. not trans folk.
if you wanna keep spaces single-sex, I'll put it simply.
I'm not fucking showing my genitals to a toilet inspector. That is not empowering.
so once again oops xxx
Do you have to lack a certain amount of reading comprehension before you become a trans ally? Or is it just coincidental that not a single one seems to be able to grasp that not letting men (of the male variety) self ID their way into women's bathrooms (and changing rooms, and prisons and refuges and sports and scholarships and hospital wards and breastfeeding/PND groups and shortlists...) isn't the same as having a "genital inspection"?
Because women (and men, I'd hazard) are actually pretty damn good at ascertaining whether someone's male or female. Very occasionally, a male will pass sufficiently well so as to go unnoticed into a women's space with other women. In which case- congratulations, you've gotten away with it! And if you've just gone there to "do your business", and not made anyone else uncomfortable in the process, then there's no real harm done.
But when the guidelines regarding single sex spaces are basically "if you say you're a woman, go on in and bollocks to how anyone else feels about it", then not only can you not ascertain whether the person going in is the sort to abuse or harass people, but a woman who goes into a communal changing room (for example) and sees what is very obviously a man there cannot do anything about it. She cannot tell a manager or attendant that there's a man in the women's changing rooms because that man says he's a woman- and who is she to dispute that?