What an entirely vacuous statement.
Wouldn't it be great to hear Nicola discuss these issues without recourse to the term "transphobia", so she'd have to break things down into what she's REALLY saying? Give us the precise statements we're not allowed to disagree with, and the precise statements you're labelling as "phobic". Make a video saying "I don't condone women having spaces (and mention sports, awards, prisons and crisis centres) in which they can decline access to biological males". Make a video saying this, and then see how fluffy and kind it sounds.
None of us condones transphobia under any meaningful, reasonable definition of it.