I grew up in a pro indy family. Most of them are completely baffled by the debate. Some who have held Nicola in high esteem are really questioning her motives in audition to this Alex Salmond scandal as well.
I'm English and don't want Scotland to leave the UK. Cynically, there is a part of me that hopes the SNP keeps banging this drum so that voters in Scotland will stop voting for them.
However, if I were a member of the SNP and opposed to the ideology, I'd start speaking out about this issue before it did any more damage to the party's credibility.