There is absolutely no way we cared for children in the 80s and 90s.
Corporal punishment was legal in schools and encouraged in parents in the 80s and wasn’t outlawed in private schools until what, 1999 or something? Children who were victims of sexual abuse were not listened to, ignored, told to stop telling lies. Children were bundled into the backs of cars without a thought for their safety and smoked all over.
Yes, lone parents didn’t have to work until their youngest was 12, and they were given benefits for their children. But do you really think it was some sort of golden age for single mums and their kids?