But who am I to say with certainty that your DDs friends are like me or not? The truth is i cannot.
My issue is many older people advocating affirmative only treatment and medicalisation of children do it based on their own childhood experience. I see little by way of acknowledgement from those pushing the under 18 medicalisation route that the current teens may be very very different and for a while, there also seemed to be more interest in blocking any research into the group. Who benefits from that? I have my own answers but always happy to hear others.
The difference is that I know, with absolute certainty that there is a baby in that bathwater, wheras others, on this thread even, cannot or will not accept this as true.
And yet, this baby, if it is there, is so poorly defined, so poorly described and is extremely politicised.
I'm also inclined to trust the doctors, etc, who's job it is to help make the call one way or another on such a dramatic, disturbing decision.
In this current climate of doctors being told that to treat comorbidities might lead to law suits because it now might be classed as conversion therapy? In this political environment when anyone who speaks out against affirmative only treatment is threatened personally and professionally? You trust that doctors have not been influenced. I don’t.
A) there is an ever changing language and ambiguity around this disorder, one that is be strongly pushed as requiring medical intervention.
B) this is a disorder that is self diagnosed and we are already told by organizations and clinical staff that children and teens are arriving armed with their self research. What chance is there that this self diagnosis is 100% (it has been said organisations such as mermaids are briefing patients in what to say)?
Tell us again, why we should trust a doctor that prescribes affirmative only treatment? In this case, of course the case notes are not discussed (nor should they be). However, I find anyone’s motives suspect who advocates for affirmative only treatment every time.
The topic above exists b/c of the mother's intervention, and the more general questions surrounding the child's capacity to advocate for themselves as well as the medical philosophy.
The topic exists because a parent wishes to make sure their daughter has received the best possible advice and that every aspect of this teens issue has been thoroughly investigated before this recommendation was given. It is a ONE MONTH delay to do that. If there is NO underlying issues that is pushing this, there would be no harm done in that one month.