Well some of us can't look 'gender free' without seriously distorting our bodies or moving from a location that is too hot to conceal a markedly female body shape.
My (new) hairstylist/colorist explained to me that I am feminine because I have long hair and he has seen me in a skirt once in 12 years (my former hairstylist/colorist has gotten sloppy, she is mad at me because I refused to put a TWAW sticker on my car). I wore the skirt as I had my menses and have endometriosis so I'm sorry (not sorry) that I can't wear pants/trousers/anything that squeezes during that time of the month. He on the other hand was wearing a ton of makeup, a sparkly pink women's t-shirt (fitted with darts for small breasts), skinny jeans, and large hoop earrings but did not find his own appearance to be feminine. Confirming his insistence that he is a man that likes pretty clothes and makeup I told him that he was wearing man's clothes because he is a man and that he looked fabulous (he really did) and then he said his pronouns were "he/him". He asked if he was too androgynous and I assured him that his body and full beard all but barred him from being androgynous - he was very pleased by that. Then I asked him what beyond my hair and stretchy skirt to cover my swollen and pain-wracked abdomen conveyed femininity and he apologized and then said "well really if not for the hair I guess you aren't that feminine". And then he said "good luck not being seen as feminine with that body". There it is in a nutshell. He was worried that as a 6' man with a beard that he would be seen as feminine or female - but steadfast in that my typical attire and 'masculine energy' (his words) that I am obviously a she regardless of what I may identify as and then he asked if I identified otherwise and apologized. I can't pick I am excluded (really IDGAF) because I am clearly a woman and a woman that looks like me can only be she/her because biology. Ha, funny that. Gender only works for males and male-passing as it always has done.
I don't worry if my clothes are feminine (they aren't... don't wear flowery or 'pretty' or animal prints or 'feminine' clocked colors) but my clothes are women's clothes as I have a very hourglass woman's body. I don't dress to signal or for anyone but myself.
Here's my answer OP, once upon a time I cared greatly about suppressing my socially imposed gender and my secondary sex characteristics but when I grew up I realized that gender is a social construct and that no matter what I do or how I dress I will be clocked as female and she/her. While I am happy to be female I reject gender and all of its nasty indications so endeavoring to be gender-free is just another label in the gender sphere signaling buying into gender and the trappings thereof.
Wear your pretty feminine clothes, or wear your new attire (also very nice but certainly not gender-free... gender-free would imply androgyny in most circles and your selections are leagues from androgynous apparel). Wear what you like and fuck everyone else and their opinions, that's my vote. 