@Winesalot
Threads started by trans women usually descend into shit slinging pretty quickly. Any thread started here that is started with the intent to berate and shame women will generally be not well received. And why should it be well received here? it is not well received anywhere on MN.
Only last night we had a poster who wanted to discuss that a women's place was in the kitchen. I offered recipes and a biscuit. Others did as well. Not one of us abused the poster and the thread was deleted. There was nothing slung and that happens most weeks. There are however posters that continue to engage only superficially, sometimes not taking the time to read a post but pounce and declare it phobic and hateful. Lots of those!
I suspect that thread would have been read as hatred by some. As the poster sounds like peple took the piss, which they rightly should from what you have said! Why posters are expected to engage in good faith with someone like that is beyond me, the OP clearly is not engaging in good faith, so why should anyone else waste their time, when its clear the direction the thread will go.
This reminds me of the 'midnight misogynists'. Do we still get those? I am not on late often these days but they were regular as clockwork, and not long ago appeared to be shifting from outright MRA, to TRA, and the threads used to be deleted by morning so I wouldn't know. But those kinds of threads were very deservedly met with pisstaking. But even on those, you would have someone wailing that why can't women just be nice, this is why FWR has a 'bad name', and so on.
Honestly, IMO FWR has a 'bad name' because it is the only part of the internet with a lot of members that unconditionally centre women. People are NOT used to that so to see it, is a bit of a shock to the system for many. Women are meant to put everyone else first, if they don't, there is something wrong.
And this is half of the problem.