Nope. I’m not interested in some spurious version of inclusion over material reality.
Not every woman has a cervix, but everyone who has ever had a cervix is a woman.
In a world full of lies and conspiracy theories and deliberate campaigns to promulgate false information, it is important that we not give away material reality.
If you have a female body, and the word woman triggers you, you have mental health issue which needs care, not a reason for the world to bend to your delusion. Your delusion has its roots in the brutality with which the world treats women and girls; we must fix the world, not pretend women out of existence.
It is not a kindness to adults, to pretend that the Tooth Fairy is real or that humans can change sex.
Women exist. We are half the world’s population of human mammals. We are the ones with the reproductive systems developed through millions of years of evolution, to birth children. Countless women through human history have suffered and died because of this capacity.
Attempting to redefine women as men, or someone who likes lame handbags, or some amorphous collection of feminine stereotypes, spits on the grave of every woman who died in childbirth. Every woman who has been raped or killed because she was a woman. Every girl baby abandoned to die. Every girl dying of exposure in a menstrual hut. Every girl child held down while her genitals are mutilated. Every girl forced into marriage or trafficked for sex.
Everyone denying the existence of women because “kindness” is doing harm to all of us.
So fuck right off with your “people with cervixes”, or “chest feeders”, or “birthing parents”. They’re women.