What do they see that we don't, or what do we see that they don't?
This is an interesting question, and one that I have asked myself a lot over the past couple of years. My DH often brings it up as well when we talk about it - he is with me on this issue, but is traditionally not as 'leftie' as I am. And I'm sure that many of the other, normally left leaning Labour voting, women on this board has asked themselves the same question. Is it because we are sub-consciously frothing hateful 'right wingers', is it because we are too thick to understand, or is it something else?
I think a lot of it is how the whole trans issue has been framed. Of course there was the piggy backing on the LGB movement, despite gender identity not really having anything to do with sexual orientation. And we still see it now, with anyone having any objections to wholeheartedly adopting trans ideology as akin to the homophobes of the past with section 28 etc.
Women's rights? HELL YEAH!
Disability rights? HELL YEAH!
Black rights? HELL YEAH!
Gay rights? HELL YEAH!
Trans rights? Of course, HELL YEAH!
And if you were to ask most people 'do you think transgender people should have equal rights' or 'should people identify however the want' then most people (myself included) would answer 'of course'.
And for a lot of people here is where the thinking ends. Trans rights are human rights, no debate.
But, as I have found out over the last few years, you really don't have to scratch the surface very hard to come across more questions that are not as easy to answer.
Should any male be able to self identify as a woman, with zero gatekeeping, and then have access to women's rights and protections?
If a boy likes pink and glitter, does that mean he might have a 'female brain' and be born in the wrong body?
Should children be given untested off label drugs to halt their perfectly normally developing bodies from growing further?
If a woman has asked for a female nurse to carry out her smear test, is she then a bigot for feeling uncomfortable and anxious if that 'female nurse' is a 'self identifying woman' who is very obviously male?
We have seen in recent polls on this issue that the responses are very different depending on how the question is framed.
Lisa Nandy was publicly asked 'should a male rapist be allowed to go to a female prison if he identifies as a woman'. Nandy was clearly uncomfortable answering this question and the answer is so clearly 'no, that's batshit' but has gone too far down a road to be able to say that.
It was notable that she got zero support from OJ and the likes on Twitter on the answer to that question, because questions like that are brushed under the carpet, no one wants to answer them.
I have struggled with 'are we the baddies' on this a few times, but have given it a lot of thought and the above is the conclusion I have come to. I just cannot get on board with what trans activism and trans ideology advocates for. I don't care if that puts me at odds with everything else I believe, it's irrelevant.
I am still, as ever, always welcome to being challenged on this issue, but the longer it goes on, the more sure I am that my views on this are valid.