Feminists don't deny trans people any rights. It's not a right to access people who are naked or sleeping without their consent, especially when statistically, trans women commit offences against us at the same rate as anyone else with their biology. It's not a right to compete against them in sport with a huge biological advantage (check out the various records for men's events, and women's events).
Trans women are murdered, per 100,000 in the population, less than any other group. Of course we need laws against hate, harassment and discrimination for trans people, as I do very much believe street harassment, discrimination in employment, housing etc happen and are wrong. I'm glad we have a legal framework that tries to address that. But women are vulnerable to men because of bodies, not gender identity, and transition doesn't alter that. It's not discrimination for women to say that they aren't prepared to be naked, sleeping, or vulnerable around anyone not sharing their biology, when 98% or more of sex offenders are male.
You are saying it's the job of women to prioritise those born with penises. You might want to have a think about why you believe that to be true.