I don’t want my daughter to think she’ll be writhing about on the floor in agony -I know she might (in which case she’ll have my full support and I’ll try to help her cope) but it’s not a universal experience by any means, neither is dripping blood on the floor, having an enormous transvaginal ultrasound rod inserted, etc)
I would regard my periods as being barely any bother at all, my pregnancies straight forward and generally my gynaecological health is unremarkable.
However, I have had a couple of excruciating ones and a couple of absolute floods (poss early mc?), I've had an early pregnancy transvaginal ultrasound and have dripped blood.
What I mean is that while 95% of my menstrual and reproductive goings on haven't impacted my life significantly, those are things which I'd say most women have experienced (maybe not the transvaginal scan) but we just get on.