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Feminism: Sex and gender discussions

Allison Bailey to sue Stonewall

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OhHolyJesus · 27/06/2020 08:20

There is a crowdfunder so I won't share the link but here a part of the text. It's long but brilliant and this isn't the half of it. Off to find my wallet...

The new trans activism: all scrutiny and critical voices labelled ‘transphobic’

In early 2018, when I first heard that plans were underway to make the lives of trans people easier, my reaction was that this was a good thing and I did not give it a second thought. I kept coming across the term ‘TERF’ but ignored it. I thought that bigots were simply being called out.

Then one day I clicked on a link: terfisaslur.com where someone had collated the online abuse that was being directed at women who I realised had entirely valid concerns and questions about the wisdom of replacing sex with gender.
I learnt that the new trans activism wants to smash the distinctions between men and women; replacing sex with notions of gender identity; making sexual difference a matter of self identification; and demands that any and every man that wishes to identify as a woman must be allowed to do so.
I learnt that the new trans activism is focusing, inexplicably, on young children and declaring them ‘trans’; treating puberty as a disease to be blocked with powerful drugs; delivering our young people into the arms of a multi-million pound industry of big pharmaceutical companies and plastic surgeons.
I saw that the same males who would have society regard them as women, were quick to brandish knives, axes, baseball bats and nooses, as they threatened with rape women who questioned the wisdom of replacing sex with gender —TERFs.
I realised that the new trans activism operated a crude but effective system of punishment and reward: agree with every demand of the trans lobby and be safe; object and face vilification, abuse, boycott, character assassination and cancellation.
I was horrified (and terrified).
I wanted to look away, to pretend that I had not seen it; that it did not reveal the worst woman-hating, lesbian hating, misogyny that I have ever come across in my lifetime.
I did not look away and I urge others not to either. Thanks to brave women who have come before me, such as the late, great, Magdalen Berns, whose courage and no nonsense approach to calling out the new trans activism as the men’s rights movement it so clearly is, gave me courage.
I realised that I did not have to accept that any man can claim to be legally a woman, without having to undergo any hormone or surgical intervention, psychological evaluation or risk assessment.
I realised that it was okay and necessary to say that it is reckless and naive to think that men will only identify as women if they are stunning and brave and harmless: that the wicked, abusive, predatory, unwell and downright cantankerous will, by some miracle, refuse to take advantage of free and easy access to women, to their politics, safe spaces, sports, legal protections and identities.
I was shocked to discover that significant numbers of male sex offenders are permitted to identify as women and nothing is being done to stop them. In England and Wales, some 40 per cent or more of trans identified males in the prison population are men with convictions for sex offences, including rape and possession of the most serious indecent images of children. I read a steady stream of news reports from around the world of males who identify as women committing serious sex offences.
It is repugnant to me and wholly unacceptable, and frankly unbelievable, that the new trans activism demands that sex crimes committed by males who identify as women are recorded as having been committed by women; and that these males can demand to be referred to by female pronouns.
I discovered that women incarcerated in prison are left vulnerable to serious sexual assault and mental anguish, as males, including sex offenders, are locked up with them. The new trans activism demands that a man’s desire to identify as a woman is more important than the right of imprisoned women to safety and dignity. These women have no way to escape, no choice, they are locked up. I do not see how this is anything other than state facilitated abuse and mental torture.
Where there should have been discussion, investigation and inquiry, there has been the silencing of concerned and critical voices; not voices from the far right, but from women like me, who are of and from the progressive left.
Mantras have been chanted because the new trans activism is a movement that cannot bear scrutiny: TRANS WOMEN ARE WOMEN; TRANS RIGHTS ARE HUMAN RIGHTS; TRANS PEOPLE ARE WHO THEY SAY THEY ARE; PROTECT OUR TRANS SIBLINGS, and so on, do nothing to engage with and address the serious concerns that exist about replacing sex with gender.
The new trans activists are joined by politicians, journalists, lawyers, writers, entire organisations, and assorted celebrities, in the chanting of these mantras to shut down debate, while others who are appalled at what they see happening are too afraid to speak out. It is cult like behaviour, it is Orwellian, and it has disgraced and shamed a generation.
Labelling all critical voices ‘transphobic’ is a cynical political ploy of the new trans activism. It must be resisted.

Surviving child sexual abuse: understanding that women and girls are oppressed because of their sex and not their gender identity
The man who sexually abused me as a 9 year old little girl; the man who targeted my single-parent mother; the man who told me that I could trust him whilst he slipped drugs into my orange squash to render me helpless as he sexually assaulted me, was tried and convicted of multiple sexual assaults against me in 2015, and sentenced to 10 years imprisonment. He was released from prison last month (May 2020) to serve out the rest of his sentence on licence.

I make this disclosure now because I feel compelled to stand in solidarity with other women with similar experiences of male physical and sexual violence. It is not weaponising trauma to say so, any more than recounting racist abuse is.

We must not allow men or women to bury, minimise and ignore the visceral reality of male violence. We must not allow the new trans activism to force survivors back into the closet; this would be an abuser’s charter.

It should be a cause of great alarm that the new trans activism takes such a regressive and shaming attitude to disclosures of abuse. This culture of denial and belittling has been the bedrock and the hallmark of every abuse scandal. It is a red flag that signals a safeguarding catastrophe in the making.
It is women like me whose lives have been torn apart and seriously blighted by wanton acts of male violence that know that men are often not who they say they are or claim to be.
I know that conflating sex with notions of gender identity will leave women with no legally enforceable boundaries against any man.

I know that if the new trans activism is not brought to heel, women will disappear as a political class.

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GiveMyHeadPeaceffs · 27/06/2020 10:48

I'm definitely going to donate. She's absolutely nailed what I feel the current situation is.

msgloria · 27/06/2020 10:49

I've been really moved by this and have donated.

As an aside, Stonewall were at a work event I attended a couple of years ago, which was aimed at lesbians. The rep did the whole "gender assigned at birth" spiel. I'd not long before had a baby myself, whose sex was identified by the midwife on the basis of her genitals and who was then dressed in a plain white babygrow. My actual, lived experience of giving birth to a baby was so removed from what the Stonewall rep effectively told me had happened. I remember sat there, probably with some post-birth hormonal things still going on, thinking that an experience that had been so raw and real was being denied. It was also just bizarre!

twoHopes · 27/06/2020 10:49

I bet Stonewall and the TRAs are going nuts trying to get this crowdfunder shut down right now.

twoHopes · 27/06/2020 10:52

An update on the page from Allison:

You are all AMAZING!
We hit our target of £20K within 2 and a half hours.

I am almost without words. How to convey my gratitude? Will thank you from the bottom of my heart do for now?

Each and every one of you, whether you contributed a little or a lot, have sent a powerful message to Stonewall and to the world: it’s a new day; we will not allow free speech, women’s rights and safety, child safeguarding, LGB and T rights to be distorted and corrupted by the new trans activism.

The initial £20K target was for the immediate next stages in the case. Having now reached that target we are looking forward for the funding of the remainder of the case. We have not yet received pleadings from Stonewall or my chambers, so we don’t yet know exactly how they will fight the case or how much work will be required - but we can expect the litigation to be hard-fought.

Please continue to give what you can, whether in donation or publicising the case. No gesture is too small and all of it is greatly appreciated. Thank you.

I will not let you down.

Much love,

Allison

Dances · 27/06/2020 10:52

24K

teawamutu · 27/06/2020 10:55

I will not let you down.

I'm not crying, you're crying...

Incredible woman.

Dances · 27/06/2020 10:55

25K

boatyardblues · 27/06/2020 11:05

I have dug. I wanted to add some to the schools case but couldn’t find it on Crowdfunder. Has it been withdrawn after Oxford CC withdrew the guidance?

EverardDigby · 27/06/2020 11:06

I've only donated a small amount as I've lost most of my income, but I wanted to be part of this as it's an incredibly brave thing to do. Hoping this will bring out some more gay male supporters as well.

OldeMagick · 27/06/2020 11:06

Thank you Allison, you wonderful woman!

onalongsabbatical · 27/06/2020 11:07

Allison Bailey for world Queen please. Can we take power now?
Women I mean. Can we?

OhHolyJesus · 27/06/2020 11:08

As the rain comes down I'm in floods.
I didn't even get to donate as my card didn't go through. It's will warmed up and ready to go for the stretch target.

Bloody hell. What a morning!

We won't let you down Allison.

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onalongsabbatical · 27/06/2020 11:08

@EverardDigby you're a star. Hope things look up for you.

Vodkacranberryplease · 27/06/2020 11:11

Stonewall and the chambers will climb down pdq. This is a pr disaster for them 😁

thisonebreath · 27/06/2020 11:13

Donated. There's so much I want to say but it's been said so eloquently by others. I'm so angry about the whole thing.

NeedToKnow101 · 27/06/2020 11:13

I donated and when I refreshed it had passed £20,000!

Will share on Facebook when I can find the bit with the text that I read here as it's so powerful.

Needmoresleep · 27/06/2020 11:13

I wonder how Stonewall will react.

I assume lockdown has destroyed much of their training and consultancy income, and that going forward firms will have less money for non operational priorities, and BLM initiatives will be first in the queue.

They will know that Allison has the funds and capability.

Where will there money come from?

They will also want to avoid further reputational damage. Do they achieve this best by going to court, and possibly losing, or by trying to settle in some way.

Bravo Allison and all the other brave people who have been standing up.

BernardBlackMissesLangCleg · 27/06/2020 11:16

it's generally relatively small donations of £5-£50 on the crowdfunder. There's just a lot of them. As always, the resistance is a grassroots movement innit?

there are a lot of people who wonder why Stonewall feel that attacking the livelihood of a lesbian is their job, and would like them to get back to establishing and defending LGB rights, or at this point maybe just FOTTFSOF and clear the way for a less corrupted organisation

NeedToKnow101 · 27/06/2020 11:16

Stonewall aren't fit for purpose any more are they? They in no way support the people they were formed to represent. Charity Commission should be investigating them.

VickyEadieofThigh · 27/06/2020 11:17

Have donated to her crowdfunder.

The sexism, racism and actual homophobia demonstrated by Stonewall with regard to Allison are quite startling - yet they continue to get the 'free pass' afforded to them and other 'fishy' organisations to treat people as shamefully as they like.

Wearywithteens · 27/06/2020 11:18

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ScrimpshawTheSecond · 27/06/2020 11:19

Digging.

Good luck, Allison.

jhuizinga · 27/06/2020 11:19

It's now over £28k, so not far off half way to the stretch target! What has happened to Allison is really shocking so have dug with pleasure.

ABananaAndAPear · 27/06/2020 11:19

Donated.

Xanthangum · 27/06/2020 11:20

If my employer is accredited by an organisation that is subsequently found to have been fraudulent and misleading do I have to remove its logo from my stationery and web pages? Asking for a friend, obvs.