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Feminism: Sex and gender discussions

Bunbury's guide to community disruptors part 5

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ItsLateHumpty · 20/06/2020 15:04

The useful Bunbury Guide to Spotting Community Disruptors is constantly evolving.

The best research and advice is not to engage with community disruptors and trolls. As ever, if you suspect troll activity, report it to MNHQ.

Remember our monitors would like to silence us by fair means or foul.

This is a continuation of the Public Service Announcement thread:

www.mumsnet.com/Talk/womens_rights/3691023-Bunburys-guide-to-community-disruptors-part-4

If and when you see threads plopped into FWR, especially a curious repeat of well worn topics, maybe check for poster history before engaging. AS is your friend.

There are a number of posts/posters/threads that are reproduced on Twitter or Facebook to foment controversy using screen shots & flagging to either MNHQ to have threads or posters deleted.. Sometimes, it’s used to approach commissioning editors with ideas for articles. It’s a tiresome tactic that we always have community disruptor posters who themselves post the comments that they then highlight elsewhere as purported evidence of racism, religious intolerance, anti-men sentiments, or transphobia.

Some helpful links can be found in the ‘Break it Down for me’ and ‘It never happens’ threads but in essence FermatsTheorem recommended “that in the absence of a block/hide poster button, I suggest the following strategy (given that you're talking to the lurkers).

Do not name check the sealion. Instead, respond to a depersonalised paraphrase:

"It is sometimes erroneously suggested that blah. Blah is wrong for the following reasons (short and pithy). If you need more information re. debunking blah, here's a link."

Then (this next step is important to combat derailment) go back up thread to the last useful contribution to the discussion, make sure you do name check that contributor, and pick up the discussion from that point.”

Go well Witches Gin

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bishopgiggles · 12/08/2020 14:38

That's worrying. Her last post was on 27 July.

ItsLateHumpty · 12/08/2020 14:59

Re @Michelleoftheresistance

So do I, but I have an awful feeling she doesn't do name changes.
I hope you’re wrong in this case. Bloody awful how we lose people with no warning.

I'm wondering if it's worth having a Mumsnet exiles board
This would stop me trying to work out who’s ‘missing’ but people name change, and if they’re like me, they won’t fess up. Not that my absence would be noted, but I def miss R0 (missing again), Lang, Bowl. Rufus and Littl are quiet, etc etc
Our roll call of ‘missing’ is huge, and sad.

That's worrying. Her last post was on 27 July.
I make it the 30th July on this thread complaining about MN mod’ing (quoted above).

Anyway, we have loads of new posters, lots of positive news, and we keep on keeping on. Bunbury is here for all.

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ScrimpshawTheSecond · 12/08/2020 15:06

Good points. Hard trying to keep track of anonymous people that sometimes need to change their names. Hopefully all those mentioned are resting or busy or here under different names.

bishopgiggles · 12/08/2020 15:19

I make it the 30th July on this thread complaining about MN mod’ing (quoted above).

Oh yeah, duh! Missed that somehow.
I'm probably going to namechange more often...

ScrimpshawTheSecond · 12/08/2020 23:15

Might not be a bad idea.

DancelikeEmmaGoldman · 13/08/2020 02:41

It’s strange times. I find myself wondering if the divine Germaine ever returned that coat. She’s gone from us, but her example lives on. WWGD I often find myself asking.

Sadly, chase the fuckers out of the garden with a loaded shotgun is rarely practical, but in the spirit and all that.

FloresTorres · 15/08/2020 09:13

Whole threads deleted now. Mental health.
The P45's are probably in the post, metaphorically speaking.

Binterested · 15/08/2020 09:17

I’ve had two deletions for no reason recently and I asked for explanation and got none. I think if you are voluble you get targeted. I regularly name change so may be due another one.

thinkingaboutLangCleg · 15/08/2020 09:21

🚩
Testing, testing.
Thanks, TheInebriati.
Loved the big red flag too, but I couldn’t copy it.

JackiesArmy · 15/08/2020 09:23

Jaysus, this is like ye olden days, I wake up of a morning and find half my "threads I'm on" gone.

Oh well, off to namechange. Kudos to all of you who have managed to keep your names and your accounts!

ItsLateHumpty · 15/08/2020 09:23

I hope the OP restarts or gets reinstated the MH one and people are just more circumspect with their posting.
I did figure it’d go when a poster commented they knew the subject of the OP.

It’s an important development and in any case should be added to the ‘it never happens’ thread.

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JackiesArmy · 15/08/2020 09:24
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Mollscroll · 15/08/2020 09:30

No reason to delete the whole thread. Just delete the dead naming if you must although one has to dead name if one wants to check the register. This is publicly available information.

FloresTorres · 15/08/2020 09:33

Name changer also.
Good morning to FWR name changers out there.
Thank you, for being you. Wink

ScrimpshawTheSecond · 15/08/2020 09:34

Ah, well. Always useful to see which areas are the quickest to be vanished.

ScrimpshawTheSecond · 15/08/2020 09:35

I'm just shite at name changing. Managed to just misspell scrimshaw last time. Must Try Harder.

ItsLateHumpty · 15/08/2020 09:35

I’m not sure it was just the dead naming but just the general ‘not nice enough womening’ 🙄 and correctly sexing. MN get really twitchy about pronouns. I posted a link and the first para of a BBC news item about this person and almost edited it because the BBC used ‘he’

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FloresTorres · 15/08/2020 09:37

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Cocothefirst · 15/08/2020 09:52

Name changer here. So we're back to second guessing what the mods want? Lovely.

Thelnebriati · 15/08/2020 10:02

I'm getting increasingly irritated at the refusal to deal with trolls and derailers, followed by the removal of entire threads due to the posts made by trolls and derailers.

SocialMedea · 15/08/2020 10:07

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Mollscroll · 15/08/2020 10:18

Name changer here too. Been on here since the bat photo - 14 years man and boy Wink

ArabellaScott · 15/08/2020 10:29

Reporting for duty with my shiny new name. Hello, all.

SocialMedea · 15/08/2020 10:31

Bat photo?

I could do with a laugh..

AlbusSirius · 15/08/2020 10:40

I can't believe no-one has taken this name yet!

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