You see this gets repeated over and over again on MN and it's just not true. Yes some dodgy TRA may have tweeted it once
Utter bollocks. Rachel McKinnon: lesbians should learn to cope with PIV sex as a social duty- and if that didn't hit you as outrageous in multiple ways, you haven't thought it through enough. Particularly notice the very, very male belief that female people don't need to enjoy sex with males, and their pleasure, or even willing consent, is absolutely not what it's all about. Riley Dennis. Multiple videos, plus Magdalen Berns deconstructing them: why genital preferences are transphobic, and females have a duty to overcome their prejudices (to give sex to males, even though they don't want to). Many articles. You can go on denying it, the evidence is right there. Sorry about that.
I've personally never experienced racism for example, but I'm confident this is a thing and have personal ethics about dismissing other people's experiences when they tell me about it, because there's absolutely no excuse for that behaviour. Walking around going 'oh it's just one solitary weirdo on twitter' doesn't help anyone.
I'm in a very active lesbian Facebook group with over 5,000 members, you'd think if this was a 'thing' then someone would have mentioned it but not once has it come up.
Considering the speed and repetition and persistence with which you rush on to any thread mentioning the word 'lesbian' to tell lesbians off, correct them, silence them, speak over them and tell them what you will allow them to say they've felt or experienced or how they identify - I'm not really surprised it hasn't come up. They've either all learned to shut up, or any not holding the party line have done what so many lesbian groups have done and gone away to where there's less thought policing going on.
You don't speak for me.
I'm lesbian. I feel threatened by lanyards representing homophobic values and erasure of female sex. I have major concerns about what is termed 'queer culture' and the shoving of everything and everyone into a group that was by and for people who were homosexual and bisexual. I wholly reject LGBTWTF+ and Stonewall in particular.
And yes, male born people identifying as lesbians, trying to make their wives identify as lesbians and trying to pressure female people into surrendering their homosexual orientation is a thing. No matter how many times you try to shush people and tell them in post after post that no it isn't.