The good thing about being grown women tho, is we each get to determine our own speech, and no one else’s. This isn’t a political party and there is no agreed agenda. We’re just adult human females, of all ages and backgrounds, no one of us is responsible for any other.
When I first arrived here I was genuinely shocked by the forthright not-at-all polite language that some long term FWR posters used (and I turned up when the new moderation rules did! I woulda been proper cats-bum-face if I’d gotten here before).
I’m a massive Pollyanna and I thought I would be able to carefully navigate the middle ground.
But!
I got told to choke on a ladydique and die in a grease fire and told my boundaries were worthless because they would be using our spaces whether I liked it or not.
And I realised, to quote my Nan (b.1918)
‘If I had shit on bread they’d want to take it off me!’
Maybe some people can be kind, polite, respectable while their rights are stripped away, but I won’t be.
It’s not as if we are posting this stuff on their subreddits, or painting it on signs, or shouting it in the street. Women can be impolite, women can be bawdy, women can tell male people to fuck off, women can resist when autogynephiles appropriate our genitals but shame us for organising for our health and reproductive rights.
Physiologic autogynephilia: arousal to fantasies of body functions specific to people regarded as female
Anatomic autogynephilia: arousal to the fantasy of having a normative woman's body, or parts of one