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Feminism: Sex and gender discussions

MNHQ want money from us

605 replies

JellySlice · 08/04/2020 15:26

Perhaps now is the time to tell MNHQ what we want from them.

eg
Relaxation of the anti-women censorship rules.
Reinstating banned respected posters like LangCleg.

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PertEllaTitsahoy · 08/04/2020 22:47

If MNHQ stop their dick-pandering and only allow reports from a tubal registered member then I will contribute.

PertEllaTitsahoy · 08/04/2020 22:48

An actual not tubal Grin

FloralBunting · 08/04/2020 22:49
RufustheLanglovingreindeer · 08/04/2020 22:51

tubal registered member

Sometimes i see word on here and think goodness what does THAT mean in this context

Then i realise its because autocorrect hates us

Dyrne · 08/04/2020 22:53

@HeyDuggeewhatchadoin oh wow further back then I remembered but details here: www.bbc.co.uk/news/technology-33985706

It wasn’t TRA related as far as I remember - but some twat called in an attack to Justine (who I think was out at the time) and another MN member who called them out on Twitter.

Lollygaggles · 08/04/2020 23:36

I think I would pay if the payment was guaranteed to be secure. This is the only place I can let my guard down a bit. I've learned so much here and it's an incredible resource and source of support. I would hate to lose that.

WorkingItOutAsIGo · 08/04/2020 23:52

I would definitely be happy to donate/subscribe as I do think it has taken balls for MN to let us have this space to talk and it has made a real difference. I know all the limitations etc etc but it’s still better than anywhere else.

But since the dodgy intern I have not felt able to trust MN with my personal data and now use a one time email from proton on an Internet cafe machine with a private browser for my Username. So I am not going to link that to my credit card. So how’s that going to work?

Tanith · 08/04/2020 23:52

The TRAs on Twitter are already celebrating and renewing their targeting of advertisers.

DidoLamenting · 08/04/2020 23:56

I would send a cheque or even cash but no I don't trust them with my real name, address and bank details.

HeIenaDove · 09/04/2020 00:17

I couldnt do this even if i wanted to. I dont use online banking PayPal etc.

2BthatUnnoticed · 09/04/2020 00:25

I’ve been disillusioned and not here much since the Lang fiasco.. came back to comment on George Pell... the site I moved to wasn’t interested.

I don’t get it.

800 of your loyal readers ask for a popular content-provider to be allowed back (to provide more content) and you say “NO”

But THEN you say.. pay us money!?

Wtf?

DidoLamenting · 09/04/2020 00:27

It wouldn't help you Helena but what they could do is set up a bank account for donations.

It's safe giving out bank details to pay money into- every bill issued for anything has that- than members giving MNHQ their personal information. If MNHQ post a sort code and account details I would make a donation.

Teabaseddiet · 09/04/2020 00:33

I've subscribed (monthly) & I'm going to carry on saying what I think. If I end up getting suspended/banned I'll deal with that then.

HeIenaDove · 09/04/2020 00:38

YY Dido it would be more secure. Ive been on here for nine years so witness to the numerous security problems.

TheProdigalKittensReturn · 09/04/2020 00:39

When people are saying "I would like to give you money if you would fix your security issues" that really ought to be a pretty strong motivation to do so.

LangSpartacusCleg · 09/04/2020 00:58

I will not be subscribing because:

  1. I don’t trust MNHQ with my data because:
a. Emma Healey - the intern who said she still had ‘friends’ on the inside on MNHQ and happily published personal details of Mumsnet posters online b. The data breach in Feb 2019 when users could view other people’s details c. Parenting experts, TRAs and others have threatened (and may actually have carried out those threats) to sue/subpoena MumsNet for details of posters who they wish to sue. d. I’m pretty sure there have been a few other breaches I have not listed. I don’t trust Mumsnet with either my personal data or my financial data
  1. I often disagree with moderation on these boards. I don’t want to pay one day and be restricted from posting the next.
  1. And no refund if I am banned? You have got to be fucking kidding me? That is charging for a service whilst refusing service. Possibly illegal.
Some posters have been reinstated after banning which shows that bans are not always justified. But MNHQ can issue a ban with no refund, charge for a service and then refuse service.
  1. I am generating content for this site. I should not have to pay for that privilege.

Interesting to note - if MNHQ had held a fundraiser or asked for crowdfunding, I would not have thought twice about donating and could have easily parted with £50-100.

But perhaps that decision is in keeping with the hoops we must jump through when asking for spades and digging on FWR.

Theflushedzebra · 09/04/2020 01:11

LangSpartacusCleg - yes, there was also Jeff the Hacker - a schoolboy hacked this site, actually managed to post as MNHQ for part of a night, (I couldn't believe my own eyes) and released a list of passwords/usernames/email addresses of users.

DidoLamenting · 09/04/2020 01:19

I was on Jeff's list.

HeIenaDove · 09/04/2020 01:25

Ah yes Jeff Wasnt he the one who arranged the swatting.

TheBewildernessisWeetabix · 09/04/2020 01:35

MNHQ once again demonstrating the stunningly poor judgment they are infamous for.

LangSpartacusCleg · 09/04/2020 01:37

I stand corrected - I had thought the swatting was connected to twitter rather than a MNHQ.

And I forgot about Jeff. But there is another one in the back of my mind as well.

bettybeans · 09/04/2020 02:32

I would gladly pay, I know how much these operations cost, but in return for that operational and commercial strength (which breeds ad strength/value) I would expect a women focused business model. Short form: don't ask for cash if you're not willing to let women speak freely.

langclegflavoredbananamush · 09/04/2020 02:35

Quite torn about this.

Pretending the security issue doesn't exist for a moment, and I'm lucky enough to be able to afford it.

I'm not much of a content provider here, but read quite a bit. I've learned a lot here and appreciate so many posters.
But writing on eggshells, seeing so many posts written on eggshells, seeing deleted post and not having any confidence whatsoever that they were fairly deleted, and worst of all the bannings...

800 of your loyal readers ask for a popular content-provider to be allowed back (to provide more content) and you say “NO”

I just can't bring myself past that. I need to feel like the posters I respect most are supported by the site before I can support the site.
We've been asking Mumsnet to address these issues for ages.

NotBadConsidering · 09/04/2020 03:47

So the Guardian begs for money while simultaneously censoring me and deleting me for stating biological reality, science and fact. Now MNHQ want money while simultaneously censoring me and deleting me for stating biological reality, science and fact. Not a chance. There is no way I’m going to pay and hope that the new model will allow people to state truths, I want guarantees I will be allowed to speak truths before I pay.

Let’s be clear: as much as MN is a place where we can discuss things gender and sex-related, it still comes at a cost. Nothing reflects the scariness of the world in terms of free speech right now when we are supposed to feel grateful that we “only” have to be careful with pronouns here (not a big ask they say!), and “only” tiptoe lightly around accuracy of a person’s sex (be nice!) and can “only” frame discussion around surgery for trans people in “polite” language if it is “in the spirit of the site” (we don’t have definition of that but we don’t want you to discuss this!).

That’s the point we are at in society in terms of this area of discussion: be glad there is a place that allows you to say what you really mean and that is actually truthful - as long as you don’t mind only being allowed to be 50% truthful.

(The whole model of MN never made sense to me anyway in relation to the “we have to delete things to keep advertisers happy”. WE are the product MNHQ is selling to advertisers. Unfettered access to millions of unique users. If an advertiser wants to remove themselves from being able to access those millions of unique users because some of us refuse to pronoun-pander, what sort of advertisers are they? Pretty rubbish ones I would imagine.)

Would it be sad if MN has to close because it was financially unsustainable due to lack of advertising? Yes, and the gloating of TRAs would be sickening, but I think that this site is too big and provides too much opportunity to the right advertisers for that to happen, and I will certainly hold out, especially as there is ongoing tone deafness from MNHQ about external vexatious monitors/pronoun police who report, OPs started not in good faith (current lack of advanced search already seeing that escalate) and posters banned for saying the “wrong” thing (the right thing but deemed too “mean”).

Give us a working model of what we would want to buy, don’t ask us to buy a model that we only value because we can discuss things at 50% of language accuracy, for want of a better place to do so.

It’s like asking us to buy the chickpea/wholemeal pasta and telling us to be grateful there’s still something on the shelves for us to buy. Just as hard to stomach.

2BthatUnnoticed · 09/04/2020 03:50

MN doesn’t want to address these issues though. MN has picked a side, and it’s user base (on this - the third most used board) is on the other side.

They excluded only a few content-providers but in doing so, alienated hundreds of users - most of whom are not here to comment anymore.

Having said that. I would make a one-off donation as I did gain a lot from my time on here (including from users now banned). But I don’t trust MN with my data.

@MNHQ would you consider a fundraiser (go fund me etc)? Even people who want to give you $ may not necessarily want to give you their data.

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