Islam is no more or less patriarchal than Christianity or Judaism. Conservative Islam is as misgynistic as any other kind of conservative religion.
Absolutely true in terms of the origins of all three religions. The difference is that Christianity, in most parts of the western world at least, has evolved to a fair extent, as has Judaism. Still patriarchal but Christian women in Europe are no longer expected to cover their hair as they were in the Middle Ages, for example. I think we all know there are some significant differences between the status - legal, and socio-economic - of women in Western European countries, and in many majority Muslim countries.
Of course Christianity can still be deeply oppressive and misogynist - look at many of the countries in Latin America, for example - but there was a Reformation in the west, and the gradual evolution of democracy alongside that means that while patriarchy is indeed still embedded at a deeper level, cultural attitudes are nonetheless different, and less overtly misogynist than those in countries like Pakistan, Saudi Arabia, Iran etc.
The problem is religious fundamentalism of all types (and not just in the three religions “of the Book”). The type of Christianity that predominates here in the UK is not the fundamentalist kind.
Islam, however, has never undergone any kind of reformation, as Aayan Hirsi Ali noted in 2015, when she called for that very thing to happen in her book Heretic. While there are a significant number of liberal Muslims, studies, including the one in 2016 show that Muslims on the whole are more socially conservative than the rest of the UK population.
52 per cent believed homosexuality should not be legal in Britain, 39 per cent agreed “wives should always obey their husbands”, and 31 per cent said it was acceptable for a man to have more than one wife.
iramramzan.wordpress.com/2016/05/17/what-do-british-muslims-really-think/
I believe we do ourselves and our sisters of Muslim origin a great disservice when we pretend there is not a serious clash between progressive British values and the attitudes in a large section of the Muslim community. Liberal Muslim women get it in the neck both ways - as much victims of genuine Islamophobia as any other Muslim, but often marginalised and isolated within their own communities for going against the grain too. We don’t stand with them by denying there’s an issue there.