Surely Maya has made clear that, while her views are absolute, she is willing to compromise for courtesy - ie to avoid causing an intimidating, hostile, degrading, humiliating or offensive environment?
And if a woman identifies a physically male person as a man, is it not intimidating, hostile, degrading, humiliating or offensive to her to force her to deny the evidence of her perceptions? Is that an approach worthy of respect in a democratic society?
The judge says that we mustn't ever make an environment "degrading, humiliating or offensive" for a transwoman, but it's OK to make an environment degrading, humiliating or offensive for a woman.
The judge says that he believes transwomen are women (who are not worthy of respect), but he treats them as though they were men (who are).