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Feminism: Sex and gender discussions

Don't worry women....a transwoman's sexuality is docile, patient, hesitant & fragile

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BoxOfBabyCheeses · 17/12/2019 12:40

medium.com/@cassiebrighter/what-do-we-do-about-women-with-a-penis-70e783fb952e?

I was scrolling through the cyclepath's twitter and came across this above link. I am genuinely dumbfounded that people actually spout this rubbish. An excerpt below:

^We talked about the symbology of the penis. Jimena and I immediately agreed that penis-owners have historically hurt vagina-owners in many ways. Some of these ways have specifically included the penis as a weapon, as an instrument of harm. Some of the women in the circle could be survivors of rape or sexual assault. So it is really important to start by openly acknowledging that history, and that symbology. And by directly addressing those concerns.
The event leader can explain that, while there is an obvious similarity between a trans woman's genitals and those of a man, this person's genitals have received years of female hormones. They respond differently, they carry a different energy. While a man's penis is an object of great pride, a trans woman's member is often a source of dysphoria and shame. A man's penis swaggers and struts, conquers and acquires, penetrates. A trans gal's genitals generally carry none of this energy. Speaking in generalities, a man's sexuality is urgent and assertive, and can be invasive. A trans gal's sexuality is docile, patient, hesitant, fragile. (Note: An acquaintance asked me to emphasize I’m speaking in generalities here. You may find men who are shy, docile and/or passive with their penis. You may find trans women who are comfortable using their genitals for penetration. As with anything, YMMV — but I’m speaking from having spoken with dozens upon dozens of trans women.)^

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DetroitDReindeer · 18/12/2019 18:31

Hey badger! It's been busy round here while I took a break!

SunsetBeetch · 18/12/2019 18:54

"Docile penis" is a great insult though...

MyMajesty · 18/12/2019 19:26

Rhyannon Styles was all set to have 'bottom surgery'.

In Rhyannon's book we learn, however, that Rhyannon's penis suddenly sprang into action and started providing wonderful orgasms which it hadn't been doing while Rhyannon was taking oestrogen.

Whoopee! Not so docile or timorous - and Rhyannon decided to hang onto the mighty penis.

(Luckily, Rhyannon is into men.)

rhyannonstyles.com/home/

T0tallyFuckedUpFamily · 18/12/2019 19:37

So are the women that have been attacked by those with ‘female’ penises permitted to refuse to share a space with those that say they are women, while retaining their dick? There have been quite a few, after all. Those penises didn’t seem delicate and fragile, or did they not get the message? Maybe they can ‘educate’ us in how to tell the difference. Are they pinker than usual, with a little bonnet on top?

DetroitDReindeer · 18/12/2019 19:40

I don't care how glittery, docile or special.. No.

Gizmo79 · 18/12/2019 19:50

What a crock of shit.
So we are meant to think that some penii may be more chatty and chilled... how are we to exactly know unless we have the aforementioned happy chilled penis in our sight?
I despair that this is even going on.
Also I feel that I have failed my vulva and vagina for not giving them separate entities. Why was that not taught?
If it had been, my vulva could have been courageous, deep thinking and eager, whilst my vagina would have been much tougher, happy to extract multiple off spring, and very bouncable!?
Only men don’t realise that this is ridiculous.

bd67th · 18/12/2019 21:47

Michelle's point deserves repeating:
Have you ever heard (can you even imagine) anyone daring to suggest to a trans person that they could use mindfulness to not be triggered by being misgendered or using facilities for their biological sex? The massive imbalance of power, the subordination of women is right there.

Exactly. We are the ones expected to change our behaviour to accommodate their feelings, every single time. Graduates of the Freedom Programme will recognise this dynamic as one found in abusive relationships.

Detroit I'm glad you're back and I'm sorry that you don't yet have secure accommodation. When you say "camping", do you mean in a tent? Could we help, perhaps by crowdfunding a better tent / warmer sleeping bag / couple of nights respite in a motel / down payment on an RV(1)?

(1) To Brits, that's a "camper van".

YouJustDoYou · 18/12/2019 22:28

Does their magical penis spray glitter and fairy dust when it ejaculates too? #magicalfemininpenisofwonder

TheProdigalKittensReturn · 19/12/2019 00:06

Considering how scratchy and bad for the environment glitter is it would be appropriate.

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