I really like the article but have grown weary of reading and hearing the two automatically trotted out mantras.
There is no question that trans people are some of the most vulnerable and discriminated against in our society.
Really? More vulnerable that my youngest (24) who has autism and SN, was financially, physicality, emotionally and more, abused. Who has been mocked by strangers because of how she looks, short changed in shops because she doesn’t understand money and is at risk of sexual abuse because of her vulnerability. Really? More vulnerable than her, simply because of her sex? Really? Is this the mantra that needs thrown out there to prevent yourself being called a bigot or being told to be ‘nice’? No, I’m sorry, although I agree with most of the article, I’m sick of hearing this mantra that is not based on any evidence whatsoever, other than “transwomen are most at risk bla bla being trotted out to shut down any conversation regarding women’s rights. Show me the actual evidence that shows they’re more at risk of being brutalised or murdered by men, over two women a week, then I will publicly apologise on here. And no, don’t try to get round it by quoting the numbers of those poor trans sex workers in developing countries, unless you’re also going to quote the numbers of female sex workers murdered.
There’s also no question that the rules can often add to the misery of those suffering from gender dysphoria by obliging them to submit to years of rigorous and bureaucratic tests to establish what they believe to be their genuine identity.
Rigorous and bureaucratic tests? Like those than women have to go for YEARS (10 in my case) to have a hysterectomy, because it’s automatically assumed that we don’t really mean it when we say we don’t want children? Because of course we’re only silly women that might change our minds. Even when a woman is suffering from endometriosis (again me) that leaves her in excruciating pain, nausea, distress every month to the point of fainting, she’s told that having a baby might help, even if she doesn’t bloody want any. Then she has to submit to the indignity of MORE internal examinations just so those in medicine see what they have already seen before. If it’s really as bad as that, then I might cry me a river, but if they can’t deal with anything close to that, they might consider whether they do actually know what it’s like to be a ‘woman’.