lemon your determination to deny women/girls - as the less powerful of the two sex classes in the unbalanced world we live in - the right to have reasonable boundaries is deeply misogynistic.
My head is scrambled too, by the truly appalling internalised misogyny of women like you who stir up hate against other women with your vile accusations of “transphobia” simply because we want boundaries.
That’s all it is. All we want. Boundaries. The right for those of us of the female sex (oppressed for thousands of years by males) to have boundaries when it comes to those of the male sex (oppressors of females for thousands of years). Boundaries that apply to all those of the male sex.
You want to deny us our right to say “no”; it’s that simple. You are trying to destroy everything women have ever fought for. You make a mockery of all the arguments around consent. You are actively trying to bring about a world in which women and girls are not entitled to the boundaries which we, as the more vulnerable and more disempowered of the two sexes, should be entitled to.
You want to disempower women even further than we already are, make us even more vulnerable than we already are.
And some of us are saying “no” to you.
No, we’re not transphobic. We don’t go looking for trans individuals to beat up or harass. We don’t sexually assault them. We don’t wish them to be discriminated against at work, in housing, healthcare or any other area.
We just want boundaries. The right to say NO. Because a world that doesn’t respect a woman’s right to say no is truly a shithole, and anyone working to bring about that sort of environment has no business flinging accusations of bigotry at anyone else at all, least of all at the women doing their damndest to stop it being such a toxic shithole.
You are the problem, lemon. You and your internalised misogynistic bigotry that has blinded you to reason and rational argument, that is making you a tool for those who wish to shut women’s rights right down. Well done you.