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Feminism: Sex and gender discussions

No person can consent to their own death, or to injury to cause death

140 replies

Dangertime · 22/11/2019 05:03

Verdict on the Grace Millane case - murder

Justice Moore to the jury:
"Consent is not relevant to murder. No person under New Zealand law can consent to their own death, or to injury to cause death" and Justice Moore tells the jury that "with all that in mind, they have to answer the question - Did Grace consent to be strangled by the accused to the degree and duration of force applied to her neck?"

(Quoting from the live coverage)

www.stuff.co.nz/national/crime/117069680/grace-millane-murder-trial-latest-updates

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Qcng · 25/11/2019 17:36

She's dead.
She can't tell her side of the story.

No idea why saw is defending her killer.

Fraggling · 25/11/2019 18:13

Despite being fucked off her head she consented to bring so brutally abused she died?

This gets better.

PreseaCombatir · 25/11/2019 18:27

Where’s the proof she liked pain during sex?
I know some people do, but where’s the proof she did?
Or is it just him saying she did?

It was like that girl who was choked and raped down an alleyway, pretty sure the defence was she ‘liked it rough’.
Where’s the prof, other than these men saying it?

BadgertheBodger · 25/11/2019 18:29

Well, I’ll play along. If only because this is getting me seriously irritated and it shows why we’ve got Badley Fuckitt.

If “in law” one cannot consent to anything past ABH, why does it matter in this case that she supposedly consented “in fact” to her injuries? What is the difference?

Secondly, does consent “in fact” have any basis in law? That is a genuine question. It’s not a concept I’ve ever come across.

Fraggling · 25/11/2019 18:50

The criminal compensation people tried to get out of paying compensation to lots of victims of child sexual exploitation by saying that while the men had been convicted, and there was not consent in law, there had been consent 'in fact'.

I see this distinction that seems to be coming up more as a very worrying, fancy sounding way of saying she was literally asking for it.

Very troubling.

If a person is too fucked to know what's going on that is a crime, in law. And it needs to stop there or we get stacks of grey area shit and back 100 years and we aren't in a great place already.

BadgertheBodger · 25/11/2019 21:02

Oh well consent “in fact” sounds like a fantastic concept

Thanks Fraggling for explaining what a terrible idea it is

TrySleepingWithABrokenHeart · 25/11/2019 21:41

If I walked up to a stranger in the street, gave them a knife and asked them to stab me in the chest, I technically would have consented to that. If the person stabs me and I die, it’s still murder. I will possibly get flamed for saying this but I’m hoping you can see where I am coming from. If someone dies unexpectedly in a sex game gone wrong and the person responsible really didn’t think death was possible from the particular sex game they were carrying out, then I would have a degree of sympathy. The nature of this ladies injuries were horrific. Bleach sprayed on her face? A trigger spray bottle inserted into her? I also read that in order to remove the spray bottle, the defendant had to snap the lid part off. I think this may have caused the hemorrhage? All this while she was completely incapacitated after the huge alcohol & drugs binge. How could this possibly be anything other than murder????

RuffleCrow · 25/11/2019 21:46

New Zealand were way ahead of us on women's suffrage. Hopefully this is a sign they intend to be way ahead of us re #wecan'tconsenttothis

Goosefoot · 26/11/2019 00:56

I read it as goose saying that if it were the one injury, it would be plausible as an accident as people do insert stupid things into themselves to see if it’s pleasurable (though ime that’s usually men sticking things up their arse!). However given the extent of her injuries, and that he left her there, you can see why it wasn’t a successful defence.

Yeah, that's what I was saying.

I find it, I don't know, disturbing? that on threads like this, where people are talking about the general topic and principles and laws, as well as the specific case, that making a comment about those things invariably results in a bunch of catty comments claiming that somehow there is an underlying attempt to justify whatever.

Several people said outright or implied that people don't do things like insert foreign objects into their bodies and damage themselves. My comment was just that in my experience, that's not the case, and alone it wouldn't be a reliable indicator of what was going on in a situation. Just a straightforward comment on something some people seemed to be saying.

I don't get the immature bs these discussions get - there are lots of people who don't comment on what are important topics because they know they'll get jumped on if they stray from a very narrow script, in an extremely personal way too.

Goosefoot · 26/11/2019 01:09

If I walked up to a stranger in the street, gave them a knife and asked them to stab me in the chest, I technically would have consented to that. If the person stabs me and I die, it’s still murder. I will possibly get flamed for saying this but I’m hoping you can see where I am coming from. If someone dies unexpectedly in a sex game gone wrong and the person responsible really didn’t think death was possible from the particular sex game they were carrying out, then I would have a degree of sympathy.

As far as I understand it, that's the exact crux of it. If a reasonable person would have anticipated that the act would lead to death, then it's murder, consent is irrelevant.

If it is something where someone might have not anticipated that it would lead to death, then consent becomes (or may become) a factor. If there was consent, it might be more of an accident with no one at fault. But with consent it could still be manslaughter, too, depending on the circumstances.

If there wasn't any consent then it wouldn't be an accident though it could be murder or manslaughter as well as assault.

Fraggling · 26/11/2019 08:39

Let's hear your non immature take on this case then, given its accepted she was too fucked to consent, and the extent of her injuries. And that she is not around to say whether she consented to them or not, as she's dead. And that either way, she was not in a fit state to consent to anything.

Calling women immature for having serious concerns about the sentence the man got for this is a new low tbh.

Grimbles · 26/11/2019 12:01

If a reasonable person would have anticipated that the act would lead to death, then it's murder, consent is irrelevant

That's exactly what is meant by 'intent' in murder cases.

But apparently, when you deliberately cut off someones oxygen supply, death is not seen as something that could be reasonably anticipated Hmm it's not as if oxygen is a fundamental ingredient for life...

Let's face it, death by choking /strangulation isnt an instantaneous thing, youd need to keep applying force for a (relatively) long period of time.

sawdustformypony · 26/11/2019 15:43

Let's face it, death by choking /strangulation isnt an instantaneous thing, youd need to keep applying force for a (relatively) long period of time.

Yes agreed, it seems a very strange activity all round - what on Earth are they thinking.

Uncompromisingwoman · 26/11/2019 15:53

"Immature" "Catty" ??
Or maybe just repelled at this particular discussion about this woman's murder. I'm going to hide this thread now as I'm just not into people trying to find ways of discussing whether shoving a container of cleaning fluid up a drunk woman's vagina leading to her painful death might possibly be consensual and the "principles and laws" that relate to it.

sawdustformypony · 27/11/2019 14:57

Guardian Opinion Article

From the above....."The Labour MP Harriet Harman is leading efforts to amend the domestic abuse bill in such a way as to eliminate the defence of consent in cases of actual bodily harm, serious injury or death ( bringing into statute a prohibition that already exists in case law )". My highlight in bold.

I wonder if the editorial writers know what 'already exists in case law' even means and maybe they'll wonder why we need to eliminate again the eliminated. Not that I think that the said case R v Brown broke new legal ground - it merely confirmed the position.

This is another classic example of click-bait beloved of the internet. Those half-wit MPs are no better.

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