Well I was definitely hesitant to post, and I appreciate you acting as a sort of cultural ambassador slash translator, 2B.
The only thing is, the explanations leave me thinking "Yep, the parallels really are incredibly strong for me."
I use the word womanface for males wearing the stereotypical attire forced onto women like me - the pornified sexualised stereotype of the modern day whore.
My personal experiences are typical of how white English women are pushed into the unrapeable underclass of 'sex work' in all its many guises. The entire system is set up to force women with my experiences to submit to having been forcibly shoved into the prostituted class. So when I see a male being obnoxiously male about the stereotypical costume of clothes and behaviour that my subset of women are violently forced to adopt through the actions of the oppressor class in order to justify and excuse exploiting us as nothing more than subhuman performing wanksocks - I don't call that costume on males womanface in order to weaponise another culture's suffering.
I do it because black American women have given me the words my own culture hasn't, to describe what my culture does to me.
The word I need isn't womanface. The people I'd hitherto described with that word are wearing whoreface. Black American women are saying "this is how they justify and excuse forcing us into the unrapeable whore underclass."
The unrapeable whore underclass isn't determined by race here. Some of us are born to it with no realistic means of escape, some of us are shoved into it much later. And they justify and excuse shoving us into that stereotype and keeping us there with these obnoxious celebrations of the 'costume' they've attached to us as part of making and keeping us dehumanised.
I get how frustrating it is when white women don't understand black women's insider perspective on blackface. It's paralleled in how I feel when my fellow white women are defending the celebration of the current iteration of the whore-stereotype as just a bit of fun, light entertainment, a celebration of the history of a subset of my oppressors that I need to stop being so humourless about.
It's cultural variations on the same thing, whatever words we use for it.