There's an obvious difference between the two groups. Transgender woman are transitioning to female, identity as female, live as female, have surgery, get a GRC etc.
That is horribly transphobic - setting limits on what a transwoman must look like or do to qualify.
And then (after Datun asks you about Alex and Danielle who present in a very stereotypically masculine way and who refer to their male genitalia not infrequently)
I don't think appearances are what we should be judging.
Which one is it?
(And for the umpteenth time, why are you not giving one single fuck about transmen?)