The abortion remarks seem awful, but in the context of someone who wanted to make a performing arts piece about her abortion?
I suspect the comments were intended as artistic critique / provocation, a suggestion that shocking the audience would be more interesting than demanding pity. But no matter how it was intended, it was a favour to her. She would have had a nervous breakdown at the public reaction to that piece. If you're going to talk about abortion in public, you're going to have to argue with dickheads!
Aside: how will people this fragile possibly survive in the performing arts world? I knew a rather talented actress who gave up the career early on because she knew she wasn't thick-skinned and pushy enough to survive the endless auditioning. I thought that was very wise of her.