I never hear people talk about “my” socialism. I never hear anyone say socialism is good for everyone and needs to include capitalists.
I don’t know why the “my feminism” people treat feminism like their own person vision quest or a Goop self-care routine, when it’s a political theory and practice as old as, and as worked out as, socialism.
Of course feminism isn’t good for men — that’s why they fight it so hard. Power is zero sum, as is the distribution of real, material assets. It’s childish to imagine otherwise.
Any woman free to leave a marriage with half the household assets has gained something at the expense.of her husband: his right to prevent her doing so and to maintain control over all assets.
Now, ebooks : consider the implications of that shift in power and control away from men in all arenas of life. And look up the meaning of the word “backlash,” because you’re giving cover for it.
While you’re reading the Second Wave, you might also investigate the roots of the postmodernism that is the predicate theory for the contemporary liberal feminism and genderism you espouse — you’ll find some very ugly soil it grew from some very dirty water nurturing it.
Postmodernism IS the backlash to the left, including left-wing feminism.