I don't know if it was no longer necessary Courtney, all I know is that you said you mostly stopped. I'm interested in why
Ah, ok. So, initially while you build up a rapport with a customer, its more like, they'll come in a few times and pay for a half hour of your time. In that half hour each time, you'll chat, dance, strip. Sort of all in one go. I'd be yapping away whilst I was twirling about. Clothes on. Clothes off. It's more about the performance. It's quite theatrical.
After a few of these the customer isn't interested in the performance. They just come in to see you, and where the big money starts. They'll book maybe two hours. They aren't bothered watching me get my kit off, it's honestly boring by then. They want my company. I seem to have offended (or at least they'll act offended) about using the term therapist. That's literally how we feel. (Call it whatever label you want instead of hanging on to that to make a fuss about and another excuse to derail and ignore the real voice of the women in the industry) I mean for the two hours I'll listen to a story about a shitty divorce, about a sister's wedding, about the daughter's new horse, about the dog biting the mother in law, about the neighbours cutting down the hedge that wasn't theirs. I'll listen, I'll offer my opinion, I'll laugh along. Most customers were men, I had a few couples as regulars, and two female regulars.
So, once a customer got to what I would call a regular, and the biggest spenders, jiggling boobs about was not what they were coming to experience.
Sorry that was a bit long lol...make sense?