The problem with the idea that lots of people are against rigid stereotypes is twofold imo:
Firstly, that even though most people are, they don't necessarily apply it to the way they live. Most people still continue to buy rigidly delineated kids toys and clothes because it is part of a circular loop - they are there, so we buy them. Because we buy them, they continue to be there etc.
Secondly, most people don't link rigid gender stereotypes with transgender ideology, because they simply don't give it much thought at all.
Most people don't even pretend to understand why people may or may not be trans, let alone the differences between transsexualism and transgenderism. They just don't think about it because it doesn't impact on their lives very much. And I hate to say it, but the vast majority don't care yet.
That may change going forward, but when (apparently) only 6% of women polled, actively call themselves Feminists, people are not yet queuing up to listen to our arguments.
Most people care about what they care about; which is largely the stuff that impacts them the most. Which for most people at the moment, isn't this.
Yes, it would be lovely if women's voices were sufficiently respected to not need male people writing too, but if our voices were powerful enough or taken seriously enough for us not to need that, we wouldn't be in this mess in the first place.
It feels like, in not wanting men to write about this, but insist on only women's voices being heard, we're putting the cart ahead of the horse.
Because if we lose the fight against self ID, we're fucked. Utterly fucked.
We need to win that ahead of anything else, at least as far as this is concerned, to make damn sure we retain our sex based rights. The rest can follow when we have that sorted.
I understand that some women don't want to see Debbie given a platform over women, or included in feminist spaces. I get it, I do. But the Times isn't a Feminist space or platform. It's a national newspaper. Read by a lot of people. Who won't be on here. Or FB or possibly Twitter.
Who may not give a crap about Feminism, but who might well give a crap about their daughter, who is on her way to becoming a promising or possibly professional athlete or sportswoman. And don't want her chances or her health threatened by men playing with or opposite her.
It's a decent article on the subject that couldn't have been written by a woman, so I'm glad Debbie wrote it.
Debbie - you said you think that trans organising should be focusing on separate facilities and separate sports. This seems to go against everything I've seen from the TRA lobby, who have no intention of not being validated at women's expense. How do you think they could be persuaded, or, how do you think those in the trans community who share your view might reach critical mass (as they must outnumber the virulent TRA faction).
Nb: I'm asking, because this isn't something women can/should do; this has to come from within the trans community.