we seem to be stuck with transwomen for the time being
I don't agree. Even in forums where we are operating under censorship or trans-lobby-written style guides, there are ways to avoid it. It just takes a bit of creativity and a commitment to being clear about which sex is benefiting from this agenda, and which sex is being harmed by it.
Susan Smith of forwomenscot recently wrote an excellent opinion piece for the Herald in which she didn't use 'transwomen' once. Had she done, her piece would have been much less impactful:
www.heraldscotland.com/opinion/17800445.man-can-identify-woman-women-s-rights-won-t-really-mean-anything/
Furthermore, you often see feminists defaulting to 'transwomen' even when they are free to choose their own words, e.g. at meetings and talks on sex-based rights. Fair Play for Women and other campaigning groups frequently use it in their literature.
I'm questioning why feminists would do this to themselves and their cause. Language is the key to this whole fight. If trans activists were forced to argue their case without all the doublespeak they have invented, almost no one would feel comfortable publicly supporting them, because the sexism and the harm to women and children would be SO CLEAR.
Language shapes perceptions. Language manipulation is the primary means by which trans activists advance their agenda. When people ask: how do they get all this crazy stuff pushed through, why is something so bonkers being written into law? The answer is: by changing the meaning of words, so that 'gender' means 'sex' and 'man' means 'woman'. All the other reality-and-sense-defying stuff follows from this: predatory men become 'vulnerable, marginalised women', sterilising and mutilating children becomes 'critical care', people who promote this madness are on 'the right side of history' while people who speak out against it are akin to racists and homophobes who propagate 'bigotry against a minority' by talking about male violence.
Trans activists and all political propagandists understand the importance of language, why don't women? Is it just a failure to think carefully about this, or is there something else going on? Is it a matter of prioritising politeness above self-preservation, a wish to not cause offence to men by calling them 'men', even when they are deliberately destroying women's rights and safety? Is it feminine conformity, a belief that if women signal submissiveness by not being 'rude' and using the 'approved' words, people will be more receptive to our message? I'm genuinely puzzled as to why so many brave, intelligent women acquiesce on this, and so easily surrender 'women' to men, thereby helping men to hide male domination.