This is a really difficult subject area.
It does tend to have people reacting strongly, on both sides.
I have been vilified as an anti-vaxxer for years on MN.
My eldest child was vaccinated - no question about it, liked up happily - right up to the point where vaccine damage (medically corroborated) occurred. Unsurprisingly, I then stopped to reassess.
And that’s when the shitstorm started. Suddenly, I was hectored, bullied, told I wasn’t able to understand information (the very last vaccination I took my eldest child to, I was refused the package insert to read, and relentlessly badgered until I consented to the vaccine being administered. This could not in any way have been taken as the informed consent it was supposed to be, because I was refused the relevant information, told I wouldn’t understand it even if they did give it to me, that they wouldn’t give it to me because it would only lead to me questioning (!), and lastly that I would be directly harming my child if I didn’t allow the vaccination to go ahead).
Again, unsurprisingly, this reaction gave me reason to consider further.
I had a second child, and knowing that the type of reaction and ultimately damage that my first had been through could well happen again, I took a different path.
My second child needed some medical investigations, and throughout the whole time, every single doctor I saw would relentlessly push me to vaccinate, even after hearing my rational reasons for the way we were doing things. Even after hearing that my choices had medical backing.
This culminated in an appointment to discuss my second child’s tests results, where the consult refused to hand over the results unless I agreed to have my child vaccinated (yes, ridiculous, but true).
It transpired that the results he was refusing to hand over actually meant that vaccination was contra-indicated for my second child.
Now that is disgusting, not me deciding to not vaccinate my child.
This isn’t unfortunately not an area where it is easy to get clear, full information, if the information you are trying to get is in any way not the official party line of ‘vaccination is fine and dandy for all’. It isn’t, and while that doesn’t mean that it shouldn’t be happening, there should absolutely be ways to be able to question the wisdom of pushing forward with a one-size-fits-all approach that sometimes, doesn’t work very well for a lone individual.
Collateral damage is never acceptable.