Hi, everyone. It looks like there is a thread on this exact story running concurrently. Link [https://www.mumsnet.com/Talk/womens_rights/3639261-It-never-happens-Ever here]]. We're going to close this one to new posts just to keep things tidy, really, but we'll leave this one up for a bit so everyone has a chance to find their way to the other thread. Feel free to copy and paste over your posts if you'd like to.