Surely excruciating pain in the testicles would be the antithesis ‘lady feels’?
Ordinarily. But menstruation, for example, isn't JYs main fetish. It's one manifestation of it that is so grabbing it eclipses what else is going on. JY's actual fetish is making women uncomfortable by forcing them into uncomfortable situations. And JY is such a chicken shit that he targets vulnerable women and girls (and gets the ones he can't shut up/control banned from twitter). So conversations about menstruation may indeed be about something that turns JY on, but the bigger drive is the actual conversation itself, because the level of detail he goes into is designed to make the other person uncomfortable. And that would be amplified if JY could do it in person. So conversations about waxing JY's balls are a turn on. Making 12 year olds uncomfortable is a turn on. Making vulnerable adult women publicly discuss handling JYs sweaty balls is a turn on.
Which is why it's so abhorrent that any of the beauticians are cross examined by him.
And it also explains why JY went from creepy dude online to trans woman pushing for their "rights". Look at what was worn to the town hall meeting (purple dress and tiara). That is consistent with making people uncomfortable. And becoming a trans woman is the ultimate pass to making women uncomfortable and controlling them by the law rendering them subsequently unable to defend themselves against a biological male (which a trans woman is).
EVERYTHING he does is about making women squirm and dominating/controlling them. I've been thinking he has mental health issues and we need to be careful somewhat. And he may have genuine MH issues, but he's also extremely manipulative and controlling and we shouldn't take our eyes off that.