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Feminism: Sex and gender discussions

A Geordie lad verses the Woke Stasi

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KatvonHostileExtremist · 02/07/2019 20:41

I was stumbling around twitter when I came across this little incident, and I was intrigued because it's the first time I've seen working class lads in a twitter spat with the armies of the woke.

This young lad does a (pretty unkind) tweet about rejecting a transwoman on tinder, because they have a penis.

mobile.twitter.com/DommyEnglish/status/1145323492591714304

There is a massive pile on, and of cause they try to get him sacked. Hilariously given he plays for a local 7 aside amateur team. The "club" issue statements, which are pounced on. The guy says he's lost his job and home, which is met with glee. He's totally trolling them. Other teams in the league join in, leading the Woke on a merry dance. How can they not tell? HOW??

mobile.twitter.com/official43fc

He then issues an "apology" where he tackles the double standards of hundreds of people attacking him for his looks, telling him to die (!!) Etc. Including, Blair White, an American transwomen and TRA.(watch White be destroyed by Magdaline Burns here:

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The guy defends his sexual preferences too, and his right to hold those preferences. And I was put in mind of the James Kirkup blog today. Dommy was called a transphobe for rejecting a person based on the fact they have a penis.

The lad did apologise for initial tweet, which I'm glad. Personally I think he crossed the line, in a dick laddy fashion. But it's the moronic, rabid way he's attacked and how he deals with it that i think it's interesting. He's literally laughing at them and they can't tell. They are so young? So naive? But really mob like too.

I don't think the transwoman was too gutted, given the amount of attention now coming their way:mobile.twitter.com/kairahkelly_

Twitter is so insane.

I hope Dommy gets his eyes opened further......

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ZebrasAreBras · 05/07/2019 00:46

Anyhoo. Geordie lad did nothing new or original. This has just been posted on another thread.

RosesAndRaindrops · 05/07/2019 01:29

He liked the look of them
See, I don't get it, it's a transwoman, saying them, it's just confusing sounds like you're talking about multiple people

ZebrasAreBras · 05/07/2019 01:41

Tell that to the non-binary folk, who insist on "they them" pronouns.

A lot of feminists refuse to use a female pronoun for a male. I'm one of them.

OldCrone · 05/07/2019 02:36

it's a transwoman, saying them, it's just confusing sounds like you're talking about multiple people

The problem is, Roses, that if we use the correct sex pronouns, our posts get deleted. Like others, I won't use incorrect sex pronouns in order to not get deleted, so the compromise is to use 'they'. You could try suggesting to MNHQ that they let us use whatever pronouns we feel are appropriate and lift the ban on using correct sex pronouns for transgender people. It only applies on this part of the site. In AIBU we seem to be allowed to use whatever pronouns we want.

MagneticSingularity · 05/07/2019 03:11

Roses many nb and trans people choose to use the neutral they/them themselves so there’s that. Also isn’t it safest not to assume anyone’s preferred pronoun these days regardless of outward presentation? I use it so as not to run afoul of misgendering rules here and elsewhere so as to not affirm what I perceive as a lie.

GCAcademic · 05/07/2019 06:39

My employer ask us to use the neutral pronoun, i.e. “they”, for all communication. This has been after extensive consultation with trans students.

nauticant · 05/07/2019 08:50

Ahh, somehow the conversation now moves on to explaining "them" usage to someone who seems to be trans ally and is "unaware" of its usage. Good-oh.

Just so long as we talk about anything except average blokes realising what self-ID looks like in non-sparkly reality.

SnuggyBuggy · 05/07/2019 08:56

I wonder if this means that TRAs are going to expand who they focus on as for a while its been mostly women, especially lesbian women who seem to be the main target audience.

LangCleg · 05/07/2019 08:58

Just so long as we talk about anything except average blokes realising what self-ID looks like in non-sparkly reality.

Correctly sexing would have avoided Geordie Lad getting a penis in his matches. And then there would have been no online piss-taking/shaming. But heaven forfend that is pointed out!

Ereshkigal · 05/07/2019 09:00

They do have 18 on their profile, the 7th tinder profile since January!

It's quite possible they keep getting kicked off for breaching Tinder rules, I've heard TRAs complaining about this oppression happening before.

FormerMediocreMale · 05/07/2019 09:12

snuggybuggy I think judging by this pile on of Geordie lad and the Spectator article they might be trying to target straight men now.

Ive been waiting for this, time for the popcorn Grin

KatvonHostileExtremist · 05/07/2019 09:28

I'm glad Geordie lad came back fighting.

As I said in my original post, he didn't have to be unkind, but he could see the rampant hypocrisy of people THEN judging his appearance ( as Blair White did), trying to wreak his career, and issuing death threats.

It reminded me of when it first went down with Jenni Murray. All the comments about her appearance, her age, it's what peaked me.

Bizarre set of double standards.

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BernardBlacksWineIcelolly · 05/07/2019 09:31

Correctly sexing would have avoided Geordie Lad getting a penis in his matches. And then there would have been no online piss-taking/shaming

I do worry that people are being misled into believing that they will not experience any restriction in their dating pool by modifying their bodies with hormones and surgery

wanting to have sex with someone with a mixture of primary and secondary sexual characteristics from both sexes is pretty niche. which is not to say no-one will ever love them for themselves or want to have sex with them, but that's not the way online dating works, so it seems a bad place to start.

nauticant · 05/07/2019 09:33

I don't think there'll be a general move to force straight men to say that they have no genital preferences and to claim that their only must-have is an "opposite gender identity". Well, not unless this stuff reaches mainstream acceptance and TRAs get a dream set of authoritarian laws passed.

SpartacusAutisticusAHF · 05/07/2019 09:58

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Aaarrgghhh · 05/07/2019 11:03

it's a transwoman, saying them, it's just confusing sounds like you're talking about multiple people

It doesn’t because the word “they” can and has been used as a singular for as long as I can remember.

Juells · 05/07/2019 11:13
BatShite · 05/07/2019 19:24

Maybe tinder need to add a 'do you have a penis' option to anyone checking that they are female. Its ridiculous, but there you go. Many of them simply will not check 'transwoman' so..the penis question makes more sense Hmm

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