I was coming on to post about this. Goes without saying: Nobody should face threats or violence for being who they are or wearing what they want.
That goes equally for trans people and for women and anyone else.(and we know that 2 or 3 women are killed a week in the UK from sex-based abuse and murder so half the population, women, already very clearly DO know how horrible it is living with the fear of abuse and assault and what that feels like). Many many threads are on here where we talk about how instinctive it is to modify our behaviour to avoid verbal abuse, attack, rape and worse.
So I feel solidarity with anyone facing intimidation or who has been verbally or physically threatened or attacked, male or female.
But I would also like to see a breakdown of what type of incident these statistics refer to. We can see from women and men being visited by the police to talk about what they have said or asked in public, that the bar seems to be being lowered for what merits police attention on behalf of trans people or trans individuals.
We have also seen that some intimidation from TRAs (like at the Bristol Jam jar event in 2018 where women were trapped on a staircase by masked TRAs and verbally abused) gets no police attention at all.
(Many MN threads on this but here’s one: www.mumsnet.com/Talk/am_i_being_unreasonable/3228462-To-be-shocked-that-this-is-happening-in-Britain-in-2018)
Lesbians also get kicked out of public events by police just by being there as a peaceful ticket holder like everyone else not even having said a word to anyone
www.mumsnet.com/Talk/womens_rights/3539529-Lesbians-removed-from-Accenture-inclusive-trans-event-by-7-police-officers
Though it’s good to see police involvement with the Person who went for Julie Bindel in Edinburgh just recently and also in the punching to the ground at Speakers’ corner of Maria McLachlan. This did get to court and the person was found guilty. But then the judge made her use female pronouns for describing her not biologically female attacker.
www.mumsnet.com/Talk/womens_rights/3223856-Court-and-enforced-use-of-preferred-pronouns
www.mumsnet.com/Talk/womens_rights/3225577-Men-making-victims-use-female-pronouns-in-court-petition
Sorry to go on.. I also think it’s interesting that the BBC’s new LGBT reporter’s report specific to this charity’s work calls Stonewall an ‘equal rights charity’. Presumably Stonewall approved that since this is their story that the BBC is reporting on?
Firstly what rights do trans people lack that others have?
Secondly is being an ‘equal rights charity’ a new direction for Stonewall? Are Stonewall saying that we don’t need descriptions of basic facts about humans any more... like sex or sexual orientation? Are they saying since it’s all fluid and self-described, that everything is anecdotal now even official statistics, and Stonewall just want equal rights for everyone?
That looks like taking away the right of LGB people to campaign for their own interests by the same megacharity that claims to represent their interests and publicly fundraises on that exact basis?
What other equal rights causes will Stonewall be taking on now?
Where does this approach leave people who can’t identify out of the characteristics that are used to oppress them- like sex, race, age, pregnancy etc?
Ruth Hunt, their Chief Executive hasn’t left Stonewall yet AFAIK and so this would be an interesting time for the charity to be setting a new course (unless Stonewall have dropped the LGB for a while and I had missed that..?)