I'm not often taken aback, but the suggestion that this thread is full of unjustified insults towards a poor, troubled individual with mental health problems is remarkable.
I think it's been relatively tame. Threads about JY get much more animated than this, and JY hasn't as far we know, been violent towards a woman to the point of needing to be restrained.
I have no wish to encourage a stream of invective against this person because he is trans but pointing out that he is not a 'young woman' is not an insult, it's a statement of basic fact, and I am astonished at the suggestion that the statement could be used to prove the women here are inciting the violence our sisters are being subjected to.
I don't recognize you ginger, I'm sorry if you are a regular, but I do know clitherow and I'm extremely surprised that you felt it necessary to chide here. Perhaps you feel, as I do, that this kind of event has been brewing for some time and wish it could have been prevented. I know many here do, and yes, the blame for that lies with those in powerful positions who have facilitated this. But we are not discussing a frail ingenue, we are talking about a violent man who has been violent, in extreme disapproval. Your censure is misplaced.