nello I used the Stonewall definition and, as a woman who isn't bound by femininity I decided that means I am either Genderless or Agender... and hence properly Trans.
Trans people may describe themselves using one or more of a wide variety of terms, including (but not limited to) transgender, transsexual, gender-queer (GQ), gender-fluid, non-binary, gender-variant, crossdresser, genderless, agender, nongender, third gender, bi-gender, trans man, trans woman,trans masculine, trans feminine and neutrois
After that I didn't have to lie or smudge anything. Because, according to Stonewall, I am indeed Trans!