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Feminism: Sex and gender discussions

Hampstead women's pond goes trans

98 replies

Bouledeneige · 23/05/2019 21:14

www.bbc.co.uk/news/uk-england-london-48380940

It's a very special women's place. Now does have changing rooms - they are very busy at peak times but not all the time. There aren't many young girls there - you have to be able to swim independently as you cant touch the bottom in the ponds - but its definitely a very special place that has felt 'very owned' by women.

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Annasgirl · 24/05/2019 08:59

Well actually while I respect that women from a religious perspective might stop using due to this, I am not obliged by religion to swim away from men but I am still incensed by this.

Now I will never use it as I live in Ireland but I add my support to the women who need it.

And as for the total BS that it is a single sex space that allows for self id - so you can self id out of your chromosomes now??? Honestly, the fact that people with such a low level of education / intellect can be allowed to make decisions which affect all women without any dispute, is really appalling. Surely there can be a public campaign about this?

aprarl · 24/05/2019 08:59

They knew exactly what they were doing. No excuses there, they just don't give a shit about women.

DpWm · 24/05/2019 09:01

TW: Three ponds to choose from. Women with boundaries: 0. No access allowed.

Yup.

From what I remember it's only the women's pond that is governed by this consultation, the men's pond is run by a separate authority! So in practice it's become
1 men's pond for for men (not "self identifying men" but possibly transmen who pass bc of taking T/mastectomy etc only bc no one will really notice)
2 mixed sex pond
3 mixed sex pond

pinchpoint · 24/05/2019 09:10

I loved the Ladies' Pond. It was pretty much the only, solitary good thing for women-only in this sprawling city.

Now those utter utter...words fail me...have just given it away to any man who feels like testing women's boundaries for his own sick kicks. This is an announcement to male predators of Open Season on women and kids.

I am so angry about this. Edward Lord and the City of London are demonstrating absolute contempt for all the women who took pains to set out their logical and reasonable objections to ending our single-sex spaces. They are showing contempt for the women religious, the survivors, and the plain old ordinary women-who-have-healthy-boundaries and refuse to accept that our daughters will be made to accept penises in our changing rooms, our toilets, OUR pond.

Not having it.

Angry
beenandgoneandbackagain · 24/05/2019 09:26

I can guarantee, with all the publicity surrounding this issue, that the Women's pond will now be invaded by every AGP within a 100 mile radius, so they can get their validation and annoy real women at the same time Angry

JackyHolyoake · 24/05/2019 09:35

I can guarantee, with all the publicity surrounding this issue, that the Women's pond will now be invaded by every AGP within a 100 mile radius, so they can get their validation and annoy real women at the same time

However, these autogynephilic males could already get their "validation" from the Mixed Sex pond.

So, one has to question very seriously the motive of any male who uses the women's pond.

[As I said one another thread about the women's pond, decent men who respect women's boundaries for privacy, wellbeing and safety will use the mixed sex pond anyway.]

Waterandlemonjuice · 24/05/2019 09:36

Absolutely fucking shit, I despair

OldCrone · 24/05/2019 09:44

However, these autogynephilic males could already get their "validation" from the Mixed Sex pond.

How would they get validation from the mixed sex pond? If they want to be validated as 'real' women, surely they'll only get this from using the women's pond.

JackyHolyoake · 24/05/2019 10:16

How would they get validation from the mixed sex pond? If they want to be validated as 'real' women, surely they'll only get this from using the women's pond.

The mixed sex pond includes women.

OrchidInTheSun · 24/05/2019 10:43

I'm blocked by Lord.

Incidentally all 3 ponds are owned and operated by CoL. but I suspect the whole 'case by case' basis means they can throw women out of the men's pond but the likes of Travis and Alok can now uses the ladies pond with impunity

RoyalCorgi · 24/05/2019 11:02

The mixed sex pond includes women.

Yes, but OldCrone's point is that if they use the mixed sex pond, they could do so as men. By using the women's pond, they would be having their identity as women confirmed.

Davros · 24/05/2019 11:10

Just came on to see if there's a thread. I'm so angry about this. I took part in the "consultation" but thought it would probably be pointless Angry

SirVixofVixHall · 24/05/2019 11:23

I am blocked by Lord too. I have never interacted with him.
2010Equality i would fill in that form, but it asks for my twitter handle, and I use twitter under my real (uncommon) name.
So that made me feel a bit twitchy as to where that information is going ?

SirVixofVixHall · 24/05/2019 11:25

It is just disgusting. Transpeople could already use the mixed pond, the women’s pond has been this little protected oasis for so long. You can bet that now it will be full of “lesbians” who are male.

Callmejudith · 24/05/2019 11:33

It's utterly shite.

Though lots of celebs use the woman's pond. Let's see how quickly they go from being woke to peak trans when there's a penis in their space

Outanabout · 24/05/2019 11:50

Hahaha huge ad for All-Gay (male) cruises being served up on this page. Makes you wonder who's lurking.

BTW, Edward Lord has pinned a tweet about his blocking policy.

Natsku · 24/05/2019 13:03

@SirVixofVixHall the twitter handle question isn't a required one, I didn't fill in that bit but the rest of the form and it went through just fine

Hiddenaspie1973 · 24/05/2019 13:07

Ooh they've got a tough choice! Which minority group should they offend? Decisions decisions.
You can see many future dilemmas where one perpetually offended group competes with another and the councils/boards have to flip a coin to see which perpetually offended group takes precedence. 🙄

SirVixofVixHall · 24/05/2019 13:08

Thanks Natsku

MangoesAreMyFavourite · 24/05/2019 13:25

Are you implying women are a minority group Hiddenaspie ?

hoodathunkit · 24/05/2019 13:32

So if someone who looks like the person in this article turns up to the women's pond they can just stroll on in and will have the specially trained staff alert to protect their right to hang out in a women's space?

www.bbc.com/news/world-us-canada-48149985

Utter insanity

OldCrone · 24/05/2019 13:37

Hiddenaspie
This isn't about 'perpetually offended groups'. This is about a council which didn't do a proper consultation according to the Gunning Priniciples, as they should. Based on their flawed and unlawful consultation, they decided to remove single-sex provisions for women. Do you think single-sex services and facilities for women should be removed?

hoodathunkit · 24/05/2019 13:45

Ooh they've got a tough choice! Which minority group should they offend? Decisions decisions.
You can see many future dilemmas where one perpetually offended group competes with another and the councils/boards have to flip a coin to see which perpetually offended group takes precedence.

so, let us examine your comment

minority groups who wish to keep the women's pond as a single sex space include:

Women who have experienced sexual abuse, intrusive / violating / violent behaviour from men (actually a significant number of women)

Muslim women

Orthodox Jewish women

Women who suffer from social anxiety (last time I was there the pond was a safe space for many women with MH problems)

Lesbians

Women who just enjoy a safe space away from the male gaze

and on the opposing side, people who support the admission of people who identify as trans women

People who identify as trans women

Friends and supporters of people who identify as trans women

People with a career in the woke sector

er, that's it

OldCrone · 24/05/2019 13:56

You forgot pervy blokes who are pretending to be trans in the second group, hoodathunkit.