I feel deeply ambivalent about using the ponds now that CoL have formalised access to women's facilities on the basis of self-ID. It will embolden the worst kinds of space-invaders, turning up to test just how far women's boundaries have been eroded by the actions of our government.
My reluctance to use the ponds anymore further annoys me, because it means the zealous sexism, entitlement and narcissism of a few M/TRAs - enabled by the authorities - has taken away one of the things I most enjoy(ed) in London. Presumably that's a boon for some of them.
Got to fight this. It's not only about women who are survivors (so many of us), or with particular religious beliefs. This space was OURS. It belonged to US. It was a place for us to relax, excercise and enjoy being safe among women. It was one of precious few places where we could be confident of not being creeped out, ogled, denigrated and harassed for being female. Such a simple thing, but so restorative. Some of my happiest times have been there, with friends and alone. Since this came to the fore, I've felt a real sense of loss, as the tentacles of this heinous movement encroach further.
I refuse to accept that spaces like the Ladies' Bathing Pond can just be given away because M/TRAs demand it, and are happy to misrepresent the law to get their way (temporarily).
As for the the article above R0wantrees - Just...shudder. All the dynamics and risks are in plain view, aren't they?
I refuse to accept that our daughters will be gaslit to accept cross-dressers publicly displaying their fetishes, and men who identify as women on Thursdays, in a women-only space. Such an imposition is utterly dystopian, rank authoritarianism. And it's not going to wash.